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The situation at home is not your fault. In Sikhi there is no "sin." There are actions done in ego and there are selfless actions. Selfish actions draw us away from experiencing the One and selfless actions bring us close.

You can't fix anyone else, you can only fix yourself. Keeping the family together is also not your responsibility. Be steady in your self and in your own self-discipline and back out of the family interactions a bit. Be there for everyone, but be neither a pawn in anyone else's game nor the one who tries to fix other's relationships. Remain kind and compassionate and give up blaming yourself. Just do what needs to be done in each next moment.