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"What can I do in the meantime?" Train yourself to not react to her. She gets a kick out of making you react to her. She is able to "get your goat" so she does that to feed her ego by controlling you. That's her movie. Choose not to be in her movie. Make your own movie. You're the protagonist of that movie, not her. Don't reply, don't fight, don't complain. Concentrate on keeping your heart open; bless her in your prayers and above all be graceful.