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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ke Fateh, I would like to take Amrit in the future (possibly 4-5 years), however, my husband has told me that he does not wish to pursue the same path as me. My husband is a good hearted man, but I know he will not change his mind. Family members have advised me that it is better for husband and wife to take Amrit together, what should I do?

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh.

My husband and I recently moved to Singapore from London and I am finding the transition difficult. I do not know anyone here, I don't have a job yet so my entire day is free. I spend the entire day at home over-thinking about the past (small, insignificant matters that I know I shouldn't be thinking about). For example, my relationship with my parents when I was growing up, I keep thinking about certain scenarios and then I end up feeling very anxious and depressed as I feel as though I have no support system. I have tried to tell my mind that these issues are all in the past, have been resolved and have no part of my life today but my mind will not stop thinking. I used to have a job in London, friends and family support.

I try to do Japji Sahib Paath everyday and I always try to remember how fortunate I am but my mind will not stop.

Does anyone have any words of wisdom or advice?