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Also veerji forget looking at anyone else. Guru granth Sahib ji already clearly recites don't look any one above you but we should look at everyone below us. For example think when you look at people with flashy cars and houses you're naturally allowing a seed to plant, when you look at someone below without a house, example the homeless- and your going to be very thankful to Waheguruji.

Veer ji no one can bring you close to waheguru ji and your spiritual life but YOU. Ask waheguruji for support in this and you yourself also spend quality time with waheguru ji. Feel waheguruji everywhere you go,when you wake up, go to sleep, walk, talk , sleep. Mainly waheguru ji is right next to you and within you, so tell waheguru ji how you feel and when you start to build that connection with waheguru ji even more you will start to have a natural instant feeling of what feels RIGHT and what doesn't .

kharag kait mai sarni tehari. aap hath dai laio oobari. sarb thor mo hohu sahaei. dust dokh tai laiho bchaei. (25) O The Lord of Sword, I seek Your protection. With Your Hands you have guarded me. At All Times be my Support. Save me from wickedness and pain. (25)

It is very easy to differentiate between the two. One will bring out humbleness and naturally you will be at peace and other crowd you will feel a sense of separation. Sometimes you may not be able to get close to sadh sangant due to your own actions. Remember mind over matter. The way of becoming closer to sash sanghat is by naturally creating barriers within yourself, i.e your in a group of friends gossiping and thats a natural indication. Think if guru ji was here would he allow himself to be around such situations. MIND over matter. Also it doesn't mean you have to be rude to any one that doesn't seem like sadhsangat it just means you remain a little more weary.

Also in terms of family and your husband, the best you can do is do Simraan and if they are being a particular way thats a reflection of them and sometimes its hard to digest but maybe that also means you need to look at your inner self so you can become more closer to waheguru to achieve this. Example- My father was a lovely person yet has major anger issues but through my Simraan he saw my humbleness and soon realised too his actions - it doesnt happen over night but do at least Nitnem and this for sure over time will bring out the peace in you and make it easier for you to handle situations like these.

Forgive me for any mistakes.

You need to give an example of a situation and be truthful with what in particular your doing too if anything..your question is a little vague as there is not a example to work on...

It is very easy to differentiate between the two. One will bring out humbleness and naturally you will be at peace and other crowd you will feel a sense of separation. Sometimes you may not be able to get close to sadh sangant due to your own actions. Remember mind over matter. The way of becoming closer to sash sanghat is by naturally creating barriers within yourself, i.e your in a group of friends gossiping and thats a natural indication. Think if guru ji was here would he allow himself to be around such situations. MIND over matter. Also it doesn't mean you have to be rude to any one that doesn't seem like sadhsangat it just means you remain a little more weary. Hope this helps.