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2014-01-05 19:16:01 -0600 answered a question How to deal with ungrateful people?

Wjkk wjkf brother i understand your issues i have been in a similar situatuion. My company had started a car share policy and at first i thought it was great as it would save on costs. I had a similar story with passengers despite me telling them would do all sorts in the car. In short it only made my commute more dangerous, longer and due to the damages they caused more expensive, in their minds they payed for fuel so they believed they were entitled to treat the car how they wished. I was shocked as i was in a predominatly non sikh workplace commuting with the two other only sikhs in the workplace i thought them to be like brothers. The way i dealt with was to sit down and explain to them what they were doing and that they would now have to pay more in order to recover the costs and would need to behave more. They responded by refusing the extra costs and decided to make their own ways to work of which only showed them how dependent they were on me there commutes were now more longer and expensive, eventually a few weeks later they apoligized and had payed the costs towards the damages they caused, they also behaved a lot more and changed their ways. In short my response to you is to temporarly withdraw what you do for them let them learn how much you do for them and whats its like being on the recieving end of it they will quickly learn and change their ways.