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I live in a joint family, my in laws, brother in law and his wife and a baby of them, i have a baby too, both babies are of almost same age, my oroblem is my mother in law is very authoritative and wants all control, my father in law dont want to seperate us even if we expressed that we dont want to live together, we both couples have totally different priorities, i love clean house which does happen now because m working, no timely cooking, my mother in law and sister in law just keep on looking at each other and neither one of them work, then my mother in law and father in law puts pressure on me to work at home as well because m elder, its so hard and frustrating, i tried to the greatest for adjusting but cant bear it no more,, please help