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2020-02-10 10:45:26 -0600 asked a question I have spiritually and mentally digressed

I have a hard time trusting everyone. I constantly cry and feel anxious. I feel trapped and unable to get myself out and that no one will ever help me. It feels like Everything that could’ve gone wrong, has.

I’ve heard the saying that says something like when you’re at your ultimate low there’s nowhere to go but up. But I don’t know how to get up. I just wish someone would just hold my hand and guide me

Where do I start and what do I do from now on?

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2019-06-18 16:53:35 -0600 asked a question Feeling broken

what do you when everything seems to have gone the wrong way? When you don't know your place your place in the world, when you feel like no one is there for you, so helpless about everything that is happening and when your heart is so broken you can't bear it any more. I feel so conflicted and confused because nothing seems to be working out and I don't know what to tell God or how to fix this. I just don't have a tolerance anymore.I have a hard time trusting that everything will be okay because it hasn't been for a while now.

2019-06-17 16:49:57 -0600 commented answer How can Khalsa will rule the world by becoming 960 million ?

When will this happen? At the end of Kalyug?

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What sikh prayers should be done for someone unwell who has got into an accident and is recovering?

2019-03-01 22:44:42 -0600 commented answer In dire need of guidance.. please help

Guruka ji, I am not able to control this situation. My parents don't listen to what I feel or think. They seem to worry more about my elder sisters relationship than what happened to my younger sister. I am very disheartened by their actions..

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2019-02-11 23:43:24 -0600 asked a question In dire need of guidance.. please help

Need help with a family situation. How to deal with troubles

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2019-01-11 00:55:00 -0600 asked a question Being a pessimist

Lately I’ve been finding it difficult to be optimistic and hopeful, especially alot of things that I deem “bad” have happened. I can’t help but believe that not everyone Lives good life qwith good things happening to them, so what sets me apart? I was always very optimistic and hopeful for the best but I find it increasingly difficult to remain so.

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2018-12-19 16:26:06 -0600 asked a question Constant conflict in family

Lately, there is has been so much conflict in our house that it is extremely overwhelming. It weighs really heavy on my heart and stresses me out. My parents have been bickering and finding it incredibly difficult to get along by always arguing. There are fights about my dad's drinking and other external influences such as my dads brothers family. I feel like in the midst of all of this its me and my siblings that are constantly being suppressed and suffocated. I know I can't live like this - its such a horrible environment and circumstance, but I just don't know what to do. Who do I ask to change and who's wrong, I just don't know. I feel extremely helpless, tired and flustered that I just wish I could leave. I wish we could have some peace in the house and my parents would get along. To be honest my faith in God is wavering a bit - I did 40 days of So Purkh for my dad in the beginning of the year and 40 days of Dhan Dhan Ram Das Gur recently, but I don't see/feel a difference and so I can't help but question the effectiveness of my prayers. So its making it increasingly difficult to seek refuge in God, especially in such times. I feel like I've failed because I cannot keep my family together and maintain the peace and neither can I maintain a strong connection with God, this breaks my heart.

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2018-11-13 11:11:17 -0600 asked a question I want to change for the better

I want to be at peace with myself. For the past 2 years, I've been struggling with my relationship with my family. My parents specifically have always meant so much to me but for some reason they just cannot understand me or my emotions. I've always felt a responsibility for their actions and how everyone interacts with each other in our house. I always try to mediate things between everyone so there is constant peace and love among relationships.I feel burdened.

I think I've romanticized the reality in my head. Maybe my parents aren't as great as I would like to believe. This is so hard for me to accept because I've admired them like God. I don't know how to live with this possible fact or to accept it. I've tried so many things to avoid this suffering but nothing seems to work because I always end up feeling like this again. I wish I could move some where else but I don't have anywhere to go and I just couldn't walk away from my little sister.

I need to stop torturing myself and I need something that will work. It makes so incredibly upset and suicidal knowing that my parents can be like this. Please help

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2018-07-22 00:21:05 -0600 asked a question Pre-teens/Teenagers won't listen

My family and I often find that my little sister doesn't want to listen and wants her own way, even if it isn't any good for her. My cousin is in the same age bracket and her mother also finds it difficult to deal with her at times. I'm not sure if it's a hormonal thing or it's just their age but it gets tough on an adult. How should we deal when kids behave like this? When they yell and are upset for no apparent reason and you are suddenly the reason for all their problems?

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2018-03-05 10:51:40 -0600 marked best answer Feeling confused about life

I'm currently in university and doing fairly well but I don't sincerely enjoy it. My parents wish for me to go to law school but I don't feel that is my destiny - I don't feel like I'm meant to be a lawyer. But I don't have the heart to tell my parents that, as I feel a sort of obligation to them. They've been so good to their kids and I can't even imagine hurting them like that. I've felt like this for a while but I just kept putting it off and now that I'm 21, I feel like maybe I'm wasting time. If I do choose to leave school - then another problem awaits. I don't have the financial resources to invest in what I'm passionate about. It's very important to me to live a life that is fulfilling and to know that I'm living to my fullest destiny - that I'm doing what I'm meant to. And I don't know if law school is that. I really have no idea about what to do now because either way I'll be hurting someone - myself or my family.

A few years back I did mention that maybe I don't want to attend post-secondary but everyone in my family became super upset about it. Self-admittedly, I take my parents wishes very seriously. I do what they tell me to because I trust their instinct and direction, and thus it's very, very hard for me to propose something like this again. I sincerely lack the courage.

I just wish everything would fall into place without anyones feeling/faith being disturbed. Is there a specific prayer I could do to help?

By the way, I did take a Hukamnama concerning this and received Ang 467.

Any genuine advice is appreciated. Thank you

2018-03-04 21:23:30 -0600 commented answer Feeling confused about life

I can’t even put it into words what I feel called to do. But sincerely I just want to serve.

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