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2013-04-13 15:32:22 -0600 answered a question I Did The Masturbation. Is My Amrit Rehet Broke

LOL no..u just gave into lust...oh well...learn to control it.

2013-04-13 15:14:29 -0600 answered a question I Think That Waheguru Ji Is Inside Us

yes He is everywhere, in every being, He is the life force of the universe, galaxies, 14 worlds, and worlds beyond if they exist...whatever there is, it's all waheguru ....sab gobind hai, sab gobind hai, gobind bin nahi koeee...

2013-04-05 12:08:34 -0600 answered a question Where Is The Abode Of God .

In you. Out of you.

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2013-03-30 07:05:51 -0600 answered a question Mastrubation

No it isn't appropriate or very holy or noble in any way for a devotee of God It's lust, sexual desire that isn't probably for your spouse. If you're doing it over someone not your husband/wife, it is improper, will make you feel shameful in the eyes of God.

2013-03-25 18:37:17 -0600 asked a question man proposes God disposes

What is the meaning of this phrase, 'man proposes, God disposes'?

2013-03-25 18:33:08 -0600 asked a question spiritual path/faith

Is it in mans own hands when it comes to how ends up remembering God, praying to Him or does God control this?

If I am attracted to remember God in a certain way through certain names then is it 'me' who is deciding this or has God decided this for me and so therefore given me the desire to remember Him through this certain way that I like?

Please guide me...

2013-03-23 19:55:09 -0600 asked a question misleading someone

Is it wrong to mislead someone?

Like is it wrong for person A to stare at person B and get them thinking that person A has feelings for them and then person B starts having feelings for person A and then when Person B confronts person A about it and person A tells them they never did that.

Is causing confusion to someone like this sinful? If yes, then how does God punish that person who causes the confusion? Who is at more fault, the one who starts this or second person who starts to believe something which isn't real?

2013-03-23 18:06:05 -0600 asked a question who will be my spouse?

Do we always end up marrying the person God has chosen for us to marry? Or is this not the case always?

How will I know if I am meant to marry someone if I'm meant to marry them? What are the signs or feelings associated with this when you come across that person the first time?

Can anyone please tell me?

2013-03-22 05:28:28 -0600 asked a question disrespect/humiliated

What are you supposed to do when you are treated badly, disrespected and humiliated for something that doesn't deserve such punishment/treatment?

Are you supposed to pull away from those who did this to you?

2013-03-22 05:17:10 -0600 asked a question This is all what I am only able to do

I used to be an amritdari sikh. I hardly do path anymore, sometimes I would recite some shabads that I really can relate to. But now all I can do is just naam simran. Would I be still considered a sikh or does that make me a fake sikh?

2013-03-18 13:19:10 -0600 commented question Why guys do this to me?

I would have handled it just fine if he had told me that ok this is not working for me, and so I don't want to carry on with this, but it's been nice to talk to you while it lasted but it's got to stop and had ended it that way instead of just vanishing and totally ignoring me. That was the rudest thing to do and really awful. Why couldn't he show me some courtesy atleast? And now I'm thinking he's just an idiot and I feel like a fool too.

2013-03-18 12:48:42 -0600 asked a question Why guys do this to me?

Waheguru ji ka khalsa Wahegur ji ki fateh,

I am feeling very sad today. I need advise and a clarity so I am turning to sikhnet for a better understanding so that I may regain the mental peace of my mind again.

In the past I have been in situations where some things have lead me believe certain things and have certain feelings.

This is what happened. I went to the gurdwara sahib at the end of the year for the rainsubai kirtan and it was like 1am or so and I decided that I am gonnna head back home now. So before leaving I was in the langar hall walking I saw this guy singh come into the langar hall and I recognized him, because I had seen him online, like his pictures and he is a friend of someone I had problems with in the past. I had never met him or seen him before, but that night when I saw him, I knew who he was and I just looked at him and I don't know, I just saw him and for a moment. He was at quite a distance from me and as he was walking by he turned his face to the side and noticed me looking at him and he saw me and quickly turned his face in the direction he was walking.

So I was like ok and I didn't bother to see where he was going or doing or like do anything to get his attention or anything of that sort, because I wasn't trying to get his attention in the first place.

I then started doing whatever I was doing and I went into the kitchen and got a glass of water and came out of the kitchen into the langar hall and I was just standing there with the glass of water in my hand getting ready to drink it and I just scanned the langar hall and noticed this guy was sitting on one of the long mats that are in the langar hall for sangat to sit on and eat langar. He was looking at me, he was just staring at me and I felt intimidated, I didn't know why he was looking at me like that, and he had no smile on his face or anything, he just had a blank look on his face, his eyes weren't squinted or anything, I think they were kind of wide open. Anyways he was just looking into my eyes and I saw him and looked back for like a second or two and then I slowly moved my gaze to my left and looked to the left and then I turned around and faced the wall because there was this little page on the wall behind me(luckily!) so I pretended to read that page and drank my glass of water, because I didn't want to drink my water in front of him ... (more)