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I have a very good friend he is in 11 grade and unfortunately he failed in 11 and now he is requesting me.to appeal to the. Chairman (head)of our school for making him give the retests ...Because our principal is not listening to his pleads and the chairman of the school is my relative (long distance relationship) ...Pls tell me what should I do ..I am stuck and I don't want to break his trust cause he is such a nice friend of mine. Pls tell me how can I help him

Thank-you so much for helping me and yes I really want to be a free and lovable soul

I didn't know that he has a girlfriend

SSA ..I am facing a huge problem and it makes me scared every time and I get anxious.i am an teenager and I see children of my age indulged in relationships.i have now become so different than I was way back. I don't like fake people at all and that is the reason I try to make all my relations strong but sometimes I feel lonely because I try to make things better but it ends up hurting me . I don't share my these kind of problems with anyone not even my best friend and now I have become more sensitive. I really want to become a good person but having talk to my friends I sometimes feel that they have different perceptions than me . They want to make boyfriend/girlfriend but recently I had faced a problem. The person whom I loved left me ...Just two days ago he had his first anniversary with his girlfriend. He left me because he didn't want to break the trust of that girl. Ik that he respects me a lot and all this I got to know just 2 days ago . I told him everything like these kinds of problems and he always helped me now whenever I feel someone to listen to me I find no.one. I just want to say that yes I want to become a good person but people around me make me feel that I am too different I mean I have no interest to come into a relationship that is fake . I want someone to love me for what my soul is. But I have made a decision that I'll not come into relationship cause I don't want to go through all those heartbreaks . In short I feel that I am separate Ed out from everyone ..They are different than me . But I don't want to stay alone and I don't want people to abandon me Pls tell me what should I do

Thank u so much , u make so much effort to make things easier for me. It means a lot.

Yes ..Thanks for actually making me see the truth

I never want to break anyone's trust .. even if I do I feel so guilty. Yesterday I had my practical exam and my friend was being asked a question that she didn't know .. I could hear the conversation between the teacher and my friend . She gestured me and asked for the right answer but I got scared that the teacher will scold us so I just couldn't answer although I wanted to help her . After the test was over I felt so guilty that I abandoned her when she needed my help . In another case also my 2 friends were bunking the class so the teacher was asking for their parents phone number . I somehow got the chance to just step out of the class and find my friends so that I could tell them about the problem they were getting into. I just found them and told them everything then they requested me to lie to teacher so that they could be saved . I wanted to help them and didn't want to break their trust but I was scared as well ..But I. Still managed to lie to the teacher and they were saved . They thanked me but I still couldn't face them . This is my biggest weakness that I get scared what people(teacher or students)think of me . I really want to help my friends but I do worry about what people will think about me and that prevents me from helping my friends . Pls tell me how to overcome this fear . I want to be loyal towards my friends and don't wanna be selfish. It's difficult for me to face my friends . Pls tell me something so that I always help my friends ..Pls pls really need help

People's actions are motivated by their pleasure ..be it doing good to someone or bad to someone .. for ex. If a person choses to talk to a particular person and cares for that person but in another case she tries to avoid people whom she doesn't like to talk to. So in this case people say that they care for those to whom they are interested to talk to but isn't it wrong ? In this way we r not living with integrity we r just being hypocrites because only bcs we find pleasure to talk to someone we talk just to satisfy our greed and we don't actually care for someone accept ourselves. Pls tell me what can be done

Ya I'll focus on my inner self btw thanks for your advice

Thankyou so much for helping

My biggest weakness is my self control .. I have no control on my actions despite knowing the wrong consequences of my actions I just keep doing the same thing again and again ..this is the worst thing abt me ... Pls help me with this problem I really want to improve

SSA ji I belong from a Sikh family but only my grandma does patth regularly thrice a day ..My parents do not regularly read gurbani so that is why even I don't have the habit to do patth regularly . But now I can feel the importance of having connection with babaji ...Without this life is hell.Now I want to do patth every early morning and want to walk on the path of loyalty and truth as guided by babaji but the problem is that I am scared of the reaction of my family members on seeing these changes in me and it restricts me from remembering god with true heart daily ...So I feel that I am stuck and I am not able to make both ends meet ...Moreover thinking continuously abt the fact that whether I'll be able to follow the code of conduct given by babaji ,makes me feel anxious and nervous and as a result I am not able to focus on my studies ..Pls help me overcome my fear ..So that I can study well a d also become a true Sikh

Thank you so much and yes I am doing the same

Thanks a lot ... For always guiding

Sometimes ..Good friends fight then they reunite because good friends can't stay apart. But after so many arguments and contradictions people give up because they are tired of fighting over the same thing and they become estranged to each other . They do miss each other and want to talk to each other but after so many fights trust is broken . There is no enthusiasm cause both of them are heart broken . But I wanna ask if there is any way out of this situation of hesitation and formality. Can the same amount of trust be rebuilt ? Can their friendship become better ...If yes then pls suggest some .

Sometimes ..Good friends fight then they reunite because good friends can't stay apart. But after so many arguments and contradictions people give up because they are tired of fighting over the same thing and they become estranged to each other . They do miss each other and want to talk to each other but after so many fights trust is broken . There is no enthusiasm cause both of them are heart broken . But I wanna ask if there is any way out of this situation of hesitation and formality. Can the same amount of trust be rebuilt ? Can their friendship become better ...If yes then pls suggest some .

Yes I'll add you surely but after 22 Jan cause I have closed my id for a while due to some reason

Close ur eyes and say waheguru as many times as u can .it will give you strength.

But if you are trying then just don't overthink. Be happy that atleast you are trying ..we are humans and not are not perfect. We commit mistakes but babaji is there to forgive us . Just don't take stress and whenever u feel stressed for just one minute forget your worries and say waheguru and close

Don't overthink about your failures just do Simran and follow guru's path . Whatever is happening let it happen . Just pray to God with trustworthy heart . Just believe him . Nothing is gonna happen bad . It happens that when we try a lot we get concious and start wondering if we are doing right .

Yes I am on sc