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2017-09-26 00:20:19 -0600 commented question Waheguru Ji please help

I can understand how you feel. I went through a mentally damaging relationship and am still trying to pick myself up. If you need someone to talk to, I can always send you my number. Just ask. And we can talk:)

2017-09-22 00:28:11 -0600 commented answer About Parshad?

I've had a lot go on in my life. And I have major depression because of it. i am slowly trying to get out of it. Nitnem helped a lot. But still I have some days that it really hits me

2017-09-19 19:55:27 -0600 commented answer About Parshad?

No one has the power to know that besides Waheguru. So how did the Yogi know?

2017-09-19 19:53:52 -0600 commented answer About Parshad?

But how did the Yogi know the story that those dogs were jutti sevadars before??

2017-09-19 19:52:05 -0600 commented question Waheguru Ji please help

Hey! I just wanted to check up on you. How are you doing?

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2017-09-14 23:58:37 -0600 answered a question Waheguru Ji please help

Even though you believe in SGGSJ, I feel as if part of you also believed what the astrologer had said to you..And although you may deny it, it seems to be the case.

In Tav Parsad Saviye, it says:

Toorath Nhaan Daiaa Dam Daan Su Sanjam Nem Anek Bisekhai

Taking bath at holy places, excersing mercy, controlling passions, performing acts of charity and other rituals

Sroo Bhagwan Koo Bhaaekridaa Hoo Te Ek Rati Binu Ek Rati Ke

They are all worth nothing if you forget the name of the Lord...

A marriage (in SGGSJ) is a spiritual relationship. Its where two souls become one and follow the path of the Guru. I feel like kaam (lust) has taken over your husband and he also wants you to fulfill his "physical" needs as well. Take deep breaths. DO nitmen. Because its in Wahegururs hands. I know how you feel. My soulmate left me and he was a GOOD guy.

And remember:

usatat ninda nanak ji mai habh vanai shoria habh kijh tiagi .

I have totally discarded praise and slander, O Nanak; I have forsaken and abandoned everything.

habhe sak kurave dithe tau palai taidai lagi

I have seen that all relationships are false, and so I have grasped hold of the hem of Your robe, Lord.

I have been doing loads of path. And nothing helped as much as this shabad.

You feel this way because i dont think you love your self. And you live in fear because someone else has already left you before...You need to love yourself and cant be reliant on others for it...Everyone will leave one day. I wish I could tell you how to love youself, but even I haven't fully found a way. But i can tell you. Guru Ji loves you. And the day you make him your Lord Husband, the world will seem much brighter.

I wish you the best

Feel free to chat with me if you need someone:)

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2017-09-09 15:44:05 -0600 answered a question Plucking my unibrow as a male?

We keep our not only for that reason, but Guru Saab shows us that we should be happy the way we were born. Society shows us that having a uni-brow is not normal, but rather than looking at that, and trying to please them, please your Guru. In his eyes, you are beautiful. In the end the choice is up to you. I know body/face hair is hard to keep, but you can either please your Guru or society. Choice is yours.

2017-09-09 02:37:59 -0600 commented answer About Parshad?

How did the Yogiji know that they were shoe wallas? And if the man put the jutti back, he realized what he did was wrong. So if we claim Waheguru is the most merciful, why were they reborn as dogs?

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2017-09-07 00:49:38 -0600 commented answer Still in love with amritdhari ex

i honestly dont know what to do. i dont want more sins. and this whole breakup was a lot for me mentally. any advice would help. im so confused

2017-09-07 00:49:04 -0600 commented answer Still in love with amritdhari ex

In the end, he did become a patit, but is still acting like a amritdhari. ANd idt his parents of his new girl know that.

2017-09-07 00:41:34 -0600 commented answer Still in love with amritdhari ex

I don't know his parents well enough. I wanna clear the air. And part of me wants his parents to take away his right to date his new girl. which is SUPER selfish of me. but im really hurting. And hes straight up lying to his folks. thats wrong too...I dont wanna hide more stuff. they deserve to know

2017-09-06 23:24:24 -0600 commented answer Still in love with amritdhari ex

He's telling me because I asked. I know her name, but I dont know who he is. Like it could be anyone with that name.

2017-09-06 23:23:32 -0600 commented answer Still in love with amritdhari ex

my parents know. my whole family is still so disapoointed in me. some still dont talk to me. i want to tell HIS parents, but idk if its the right step.

2017-09-06 12:38:59 -0600 commented answer Still in love with amritdhari ex

Also, should I tell his parents what he did to me?

2017-09-06 12:38:49 -0600 commented answer Still in love with amritdhari ex

He is still refusing to tell his girl about the sexual stuff between him. He says "its not the right time". But I feel hes doing that until the girl gets so attached to him that she refuses to leave him. or maybe that's just be. He told me the girl is quite shy.

2017-09-06 12:38:34 -0600 commented answer Still in love with amritdhari ex

Ya. I haven't been hanging around him. And he stopped texting me ever since our break. He blocked me on all social media platforms besides Skype.

2017-09-06 12:38:00 -0600 answered a question Still in love with amritdhari ex

Ya. I haven't been hanging around him. And he stopped texting me ever since our break. He blocked me on all social media platforms besides Skype. He is still refusing to tell his girl about the sexual stuff between him. He says "its not the right time". But I feel hes doing that until the girl gets so attached to him that she refuses to leave him. or maybe that's just be. He told me the girl is quite shy. Also, should I tell his parents what he did to me?

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2017-09-06 00:31:00 -0600 asked a question Still in love with amritdhari ex

I am a sixteen year old Sikh (not amritdhari) and fell in love with a twenty year old guy who happened to be amritdhari. We indulged in sexual activities, thinking we were going to marry each other. A month ago he had broke up with me, and told me he was going to wait till I am 18 till we date. A few days after the break up, he went to a camp and developed strong feelings for another girl. I tore my hear in half. He finally got the guts to ask her out after talking to her nonstop for a bit more than a month, and now they have been dating for a little more than a week. This tears my heart out everytime. I really love this guy. I know I might seem young, but I'm very mature. This guy seemed to be extremely knowlegdable about SIkhi. like VERY!! And is looked highly in the Seattle community for that and his efforts towards charity. I still really miss him. He means the wolrd to me. I know its wrong to look at someones elses man. But its relaly hard to move on that fast. They say that if you do ardas with 100% faith in GUruji, it comes true. I want to marry this man...We dated for almost 11 months. Engluged in sexual pleasures, which makes me very nervous to be with someone else other than him because of it, and he was my best friend. We shared every insecurity with each other. It hurts seeing him move on in just a couple days...I really love him. Will Waheguru answer my ardas?