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2017-04-04 16:28:35 -0600 answered a question Is there a way to overcome homosexuality?

I don't think so. Homosexuality is part of the kudrat Karishma. Nature is about diversity. Accept it and love it. It is hard because people judge you but you can't change who you are. If people judge you for being black, you can't stop being black.

2017-04-04 16:12:49 -0600 answered a question I love masturbating, since it is relaxing. However, I want to stop.

Don't worry about it. If you want to worry about something, worry about the people suffering in this world and do something about themt. From my perspective, what you are doing is normal.

2017-04-04 16:02:53 -0600 answered a question Regret Cutting my hairs.

Oh my God. The people who responded to your plea are so mean. If they were so much into Sikhi, they would empathize with your pain and not put you down. Guru ji is not going to punish you. Life is a journey. You will make mistakes. One day either you will decide that you are fully happy with your hair or you might go the other way. You have to decide what is most important to you.

2017-04-04 15:48:52 -0600 answered a question I'm 14 and a Sikh girl. I watch porn, I masturbate and I want to have sex. I regret being like this

Many Sikhs watch porn and Masturbate.

You r perfectly normal.

However, Obsession with anything is self detrimental, whether it is sex, money, power, news, anything. If you are spending so much time on this that you can't find time to do your homework, then it is a problem but that would still not make you a bad sikh or bad person.

Most important thing is the life that God has given you. By worrying about this issue, you are actually causing more damage to your life than the damage that this "issue" could cause, if any at all.

You are not alone. We are all sisters. Let me know if you want to talk it out. I feel really bad that you feel this way. You deserve happiness.

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2017-04-04 12:09:46 -0600 answered a question Non-veg and Sikhism

Wow, humans are omnivores. Vegetarianism has nothing to do with spirtuality. People who know nothing about translating gurbani incorrectly translate it to present their case for "vegetarianism". You cannot just read one line and translate. You have to read the entire shabad and get the context to do the correct translation.

Also, below from gurbani:

"ਮਾਸੁ ਮਾਸੁ ਕਰਿ ਮੂਰਖੁ ਝਗੜੇ ਗਿਆਨੁ ਧਿਆਨੁ ਨਹੀ ਜਾਣੈ ॥ Maas Maas Kar Moorakh Jhagarrae Giaan Dhhiaan Nehee Jaanai || मासु मासु करि मूरखु झगड़े गिआनु धिआनु नही जाणै ॥ The fools argue about flesh and meat, but they know nothing about meditation and spiritual wisdom."

I guess that make all of us on this forum fools!