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| 2016-12-31 06:16:45 -0500 | commented answer | A mistake or god's will? thaank you soo much for taking out time to amswer this ques ...i hope waheguru ji shows me the right path ... |
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| 2016-12-27 11:45:53 -0500 | asked a question | A mistake or god's will? Waheguru ji ka khalsa ,waheguru ji ki fateh... Actually i have a guilt for rejecting a guy for his appearance who was good by heart (which i realised in recent few days) and now he is married.... The family was good by nature and heart ....but when i met the boy i did nt feel anything (as mine is the case of arrange marriage)...ignorantly i hurted him by saying no (a mistake)...he kept a chaliya for me ...bt i was nt ready to say yes to him at that time may be bcs i was not ready for marriage , they responded that the girl is arrogant(even i dnt know is it so)....but now i dnt know why these days everytime his thought is coming to my mind and i am also facing problems in my marriage (delay)... I confessed to god in my prayers for hurting him...bt still the guilt is there....what should i do ? Was it God's will that we were not meant to be together or i am responsible that i lost an opportunity ...is it really my guilt or my situation(delay in marriage) that is making me to think so ? I am not able to figure it out... |
| 2016-12-27 11:03:34 -0500 | commented answer | marriage issues I have a fear in my mind ...that whether these matrimonial sites are trustworthy or not....mean while i am relying on accquaintances ...bt ya i tried some of the sites....we went ahead also....bt nothing came out of that.... |
| 2016-12-24 13:10:38 -0500 | commented answer | marriage issues Now i have crossed 27...i asked this one and a half year ago....bt nothing has changed yet :( |
| 2016-12-23 13:33:21 -0500 | commented answer | marriage issues They say that i am responsible for not getting married if i simply say yes to a person ...everything will be ok....but wherever i say yes there is a negative response from other side and vice versa ....i dnt know what should i do....as i have a lot of pressure regarding age |
| 2016-12-23 12:42:39 -0500 | commented answer | marriage issues Thaank u for ur precious advice ji....but i am a teacher by profession....and i left my job recently just bcz of this stress ....... And Now i am really afraid...as once the time passes it never returns ...and as people say that if you delay or u cross the age limit u will not get good options |
| 2016-12-23 12:39:33 -0500 | commented answer | marriage issues Thaank u soo much...ur words relieved me a lot... Now i am really afraid...as once the time passes it never returns ...and as people say that if you delay or u cross the age limit u will not get good options They say that i am responsible for not getting married if i simply say yes to a person ...everything will be ok....but wherever i say yes there is a negative response from other side and vice versa ....i dnt know what should i do....as i have a lot of pressure regarding age |
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| 2015-06-15 12:57:14 -0500 | asked a question | marriage issues waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh.. i am a sikh girl ( just crossed 25)... It has been three years now that my parents are looking for my life partner..but i am not able to take the decision yet that whom should i choose as my life partner...i dont know y bt something inside me stops me from getting married...evry one in my locality has started taunting my parents regarding my age ...even my brother and father are cursing me for this ...evryday they speak harsh words to me... Evrytime my bro says what am i going to do if something happens to my mother or father...u will not find a good boy if u delay it anymore...and much more like this ... After being hurted and having cried so much i gave up and went to two pandits who after looking at the destiny lines of my hands said that i will be getting married at the age of 27...i dnt know whether i should believe him or not...bt still i am very upset about the words that people say to me and my parents about me .. nw i have started a sehej path from sri guru granth sahib ji..bt still in fear whether doing this path will help me or not...as this is my last hope..that babaji will help me make up my mind for marriage...need suggestions if i am wrong anywhere for not being able to decide...?? Or all this is pre destined by waheguru ji ?? Feeling like life has become hell than i cud ever imagine :( |