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2015-03-08 19:39:27 -0500 answered a question Did abortion as mistake

No abortion is not acceptable, no matter at whatever week of the pregnancy. It's a sin and plain wrong.

2015-03-08 15:08:03 -0500 answered a question Am I A Good Sikh?

Hey don't make the mistake of hating your religion just because of the actions of someone who does not even have anything to do with our religion. Please don't make the mistake of associating the sikh religion with this person who, maybe 'looks' like a sikh outwardly but is NOT one.

The sikh religion is a religion of complete surrender and love for God. If you will read the bani for yourself, then you will see what it is really about...

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2015-02-16 20:22:37 -0500 answered a question God as my husband and feeling jealousy.

Lol OMG, that hurt, your answer, how you're making it sound like I am bad and envious and to the extent that Guru Arjan Dev ji's brother was! hell no, I am not jealous like that.

No I'm done with falling in love with a 'human' guy. No thank you, I will not go that road again.

And besides if loving others means being nice when you deal with them, then that I already do. I can't romantically love everyone though! That's gross!

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2015-02-02 19:11:59 -0500 answered a question lost love..

He's gone, please move on. He has chosen to be with someone else and not you. If he doesn't love you enough to be with you, then don't desire him. You deserve someone who will love you and not cheat on you, which is what he did to you.

Why do you want to love a cheater??? He doesn't care about you, that is why he cheated on you. If he truly cared for you, and if he was so unhappy with you, he could have shown you respect and courtesy and told you that he could not carry on having a relationship with you, BUT NO, he CHEATED on you, he deceived you.

He is a selfish guy, and disrespectful, and not loyal. So be thankful that he left you before marriage, and not after marrying you.

He was not the one for you. You deserve better. Let him go and be with whoever he wants to be with. Pray for yourself, that you get someone you deserve and who doesn't betray you like him.

How could you keep loving him, if he came back to you, and you know that he had cheated on you? That would not be a healthy relationship, deep inside, you would always hurt that he cheated on you, even if he came back.

Please just move on, and stop wanting to be with him. He is not a nice guy.

2015-02-02 18:54:17 -0500 answered a question Is this true?

I'm confused. I understand that God lives in every one - that's clear enough.

BUT, if one person does something bad to another, then HOW can they be thought of as being God? I mean isn't God like perfect and pure so why would God swear at another person or do something bad to another person? I don't understand that. Please explain more.

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2015-01-17 04:21:59 -0500 answered a question Animals allowed to enter the Gurdwara?

Trust me, if you take your rabbit to the gurdwara people are going to tell you off for doing that and say that you cannot do that.

I have a pet dog and sometimes when I used to go to the gurdwara, I used to take my dog to the gurdwara and I would just leave him in the car and go to the gurdwara inside for a little time and these people at the gurdwara started harrassing me about it. They said you can't bring your dog here and bla blah blah.

I stopped going to that gurdwara, because these people were so rude to me and they even told me to sit outside the gurdwara if I wanted to have langar!

Alot of people go to the gurdwara and do non sikh things, which in turn makes me want to stop attending the gurdwara and doing sangat with such people.

I would just recommend that if you want to take your rabbit to the gurdwara, you can decide what you want to do but its better if you just pray at home with your rabbit around so that your rabbit can hear prayers from you. It is very likely that you are gonna get told off by these people at the gurdwara that you can't bring animals here and bla be prepared for it and if it happens, it will suck but that's what punjabis are like.

2015-01-17 04:07:29 -0500 answered a question high school

Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh,

Hey, I can relate to you because I went through feeling like this at one stage in life too.

But I just want to add that you might feel like not studying anymore at this time, but if you do this, you will regret it in the future. If you go to university and get a degree, you will have a higher chance of making a better living and earning sufficient money to survive. You don't want to be in a situation where you are working for long hours and making lesser money when you could be working for like 40 hours a week and make decent money so that you can have a comfortable life, pay your bills, and pay for your expenses.

The rest is up to you to decide. I know that if I had thought all about this I would be in a better situation today and now I'm working towards getting a degree so that when I graduate I can get a decent paying job and a job I will feel good about doing, which would be impossible for me to obtain if I didn't have a degree.

So think about this seriously. Are you okay with doing a customer service job for the rest of your life? Or do you want to have a better quality job which has more responsibility and challenge and is just plain better than a customer service and pays you more money?

Are you okay with earning $8 an hour or do you want a job that pays you higher money per hour? Right now is the time for you to make this important decision about your future life so decide wisely. A few more years in studying and getting a degree will be well worth it because you will get a better job with a good qualification and having a bachelors atleast will make you feel like you accomplished something good.

All the best to you.

2015-01-16 19:21:28 -0500 answered a question Can sikhs eat meat

I am an amritdari sikh and I do not agree with the practice of jhatka. I think it is just wrong and cruel and I really hope that God would punish those people that kill poor animals like this.

This jhatka practice goes on these days and these days there is NO NEED for it. Sikhs are not doing war these days, they are not running from jungle to jungle and its not like they have no access to vegetarian food, BUT STILL these poor animals are being killed through this jhatka practice so how in the world is this a sikh practice?! It's wrong and horrible, I am disgusted.

2015-01-16 19:12:25 -0500 answered a question killing of animal at Hazur sahib ji

I am a sikh myself and when I came across a jhatka video on facebook I was in utter shock and shaken up completely. Honestly, I want to do something to stop this jhatka practice. This is not sikhi. This is just brutal murder of a poor helpless innocent animal that can't protect itself.

Guru Gobind Singh ji blessed us with swords so that it can be raised to defend and protect those who cannot protect themselves. HOW in any crazy way is it right for these moron so called sikhs to kill poor creatures with their sword? ?? !!! The sword that is supposed to be raised to protect?? How is this right even? !!! I don't think this is right and it really needs to be stopped, but why isn't anyone attempting to stop such a cruel immoral practice??

If sword is considered God in sikhi, then why would God want to take the life of a poor helpless animal like this??! God wouldn't! It's these so called sikhs that don't even have any mercy in them that are doing these horrible acts in the name of sikhi.

I am disgusted to find out about this jhatka practice and honestly my heart is broken and my soul and mind are feeling tormented on seeing such things in the sikh faith. I feel horrified and really wish I can do something to bring this jhatka practice to an end.

2015-01-04 04:49:58 -0500 answered a question I'm the worst amritdhaari ever! please help! what should i do?

waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh,

okay so you have recognized that this is wrong and a problem and it needs to stop. please DO stop yourself from going anymore astray.

see watching porn is like a disease. a disgusting, horrible, disgraceful, filthy disease. it takes away your purity and God is pure and if your goal, the Creator, is a pure one so you need to stay away from things that make you go in the impure direction, hence porn.

these people that create porn, you know they are big sinners seriously. they disrespect their bodies, minds, hearts, hurt their souls, whether they realise it or not, and they CHEAT themselves through this sickness.

porn is not love you know. it's a very high degree of lust that is uncontrolled and running wild, out there to corrupt a persons soul and cheat him and lead him FAR AWAY FROM GOD.

it's the demons plan for you, to bring you down through things like these. this lust (porn) is a demon and it's bringing your honour down, taking you away from waheguru.

see waheguru ji doesn't want this for you or anyone.

you should ask yourself, what am i getting out of this? am i getting pleasure out of engaging myself into acts such as these? if i am getting pleasure, then what kind of pleasure is this that its making me feel so horrible and low inside?! is this beneficial for me and my heart?

theres a pangti in bani, don't know it exactly, but its basically guru sahib saying that at a certain stage in life a person gets so caught up in lust that this person doesnt even question about what they are doing is right or wrong because they are so caught up in lust. now YOU need to get out of this phase.

omg there are so many reasons why porn will destroy your life. its bad sangat via the internet. you are sinning when you watch all these crazy people, i mean why do you wanna see all this rubbish??!

when you die man, dharamraj is probably going to show you a review of your life, and there you will watching all this craziness on dharamraj's screen and getting the biggest EMBARRASSMENT. just imagine how embarrassed your soul is going to feel.

and you know when you probably do all this crazy stuff without remembering the fact that God is able to see what you are doing. I mean you probably think, oh this is ok, noone's watching but guess what, you are wrong because God is everywhere and witnesses everything that goes on in all the worlds.

do you really want to live on doing this stuff, because somewhere inside you haven't realised that waheguru is not watching you? waheguru has given you a body, it's a gift from waheguru, He has given us eyes, to see God in everyone and acknowledge ... (more)

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2014-12-30 03:30:35 -0500 answered a question this is sinful right?

Simar why do you say that if im getting pain because someone is abusing me that is because of my deeds? I mean its only natural to be hurt when someone hurts you right so why would you say that it's my deeds? I'm not creating the abuse they are.

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2014-12-17 16:20:44 -0500 answered a question God's home

No, I was asking about a place where I can be and sing God's praises like after death.

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