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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh. I am from jammu nd I am 19 year old boy. My question is that I am in a relationship with a girl for more than 3 and half years. We love each other vey much. I had been baptised into amrit. My girl belongs to a gursikh family bt she has not been baptised into amrit yet ( amrit nhi chhakiya hoya). We both know that that we are going to marry each other and if for some reason we couldn't marry each other, we will live a single life (but will not get marry to any-one else). Even our families know about our relation and they are OK with it. Now my question is that being an amrit dhari person, can we kiss each other, (she is not amrit dhari girl). I found no problem in it bt still i want to knw from you people that is it OK with that. WE KNOW THE LIMITS OF BEING IN RELATION AND HOW FAR WE CAN GO, WE HAVE NEVER EVEN THOUGHT ABOUT PHYSICAL RELATION BEFORE MARRIAGE. We know that it should not be done bt i think kiss is not a big deal. So please suggest your opinions coz i really need it, thankyou Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh.