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Hi

I know I maybe not very popular when I ask some of my questions. I am a young female who is married to a guy for 3 years. Things were well before his father touched me while I was asleep. I obviously told him and now don't want anything to do with his father (who is amritdhari). his family say im making it up and there is no way their dad/husband would do this.

I am at a cross road. my husband is sitting on the fence not saying his dad did this and not saying I am not lying.

I have now separated and gone back to my parents house. along with this problem he has said that we want different things out of life. his main thing being

he wants to become amritdhari (he is cut hair/ trim beard) within 2 years. I don't have any great desire to become amritdhari at this moment in time ( I am 33 and he is 36) we have no children. from my understanding we will not be able to have a marital relationship if one what amrit dhari and the other is not.

I have known him for 10 years and never misled him. he has always known my thoughts and feelings.

His family also follow a mahapursh. which I disagree with. so I suspect his family are not happy with me in anyway.

please help

troubled wife

Hi

I know I maybe not very popular when I ask some of my questions. I am a young female who is married to a guy for 3 years. Things were well before his father touched me while I was asleep. I obviously told him and now don't want anything to do with his father (who is amritdhari). his family say im making it up and there is no way their dad/husband would do this.

I am at a cross road. my husband is sitting on the fence not saying his dad did this and not saying I am not lying.

I have now separated and gone back to my parents house. along with this problem he has said that we want different things out of life. his main thing being

he wants to become amritdhari (he is cut hair/ trim beard) within 2 years. I don't have any great desire to become amritdhari at this moment in time ( I am 33 and he is 36) we have no children. from my understanding we will not be able to have a marital relationship if one what amrit dhari and the other is not.

I have known him for 10 years and never misled him. he has always known my thoughts and feelings.

His family also follow a mahapursh. which I disagree with. so I suspect his family are not happy with me in anyway.

please help

troubled wife