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I've been married for more than five years and have young children. Due to pride/ stubborness and money my husband has taken off to another country and left me with the kids. It has been well over a year now and we haven't spoken. I stopped contact because everytime we spoke it would end in argument. What should i do? He says he has no trust and feeling in me anymore? and to be honest i have lost trust in him also, but there are children involved??? The problems in our marriage have arisen mainly due to parents/inlaws etc. Should i try to make contact or just let time heal the wounds??

I've been married for more than five many years and have young children. Due to pride/ stubborness and money my husband has taken off to another country and left me with the kids. It has been well over a year now and we haven't spoken. I stopped contact because everytime we spoke it would end in argument. What should i do? He says he has no trust and feeling in me anymore? and to be honest i have lost trust in him also, but there are children involved??? The problems in our marriage have arisen mainly due to parents/inlaws etc. involved??. Should i try to make contact or just let time heal the wounds??