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asked 2016-06-15 10:31:55 -0500

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updated 2016-07-12 13:06:41 -0500

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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh.. I m 31 years old women. I have two kids . Boy(7years old) and girl(5yr old).. My husband is very much caring about my kids. He do everything for kids. He love them and even he cares about me too...Before also we have an issue about our own relationship like he always stays on phone ..And on this Feb 14 a saw a messages on his phone of that girl (Where r u???? Get in my car)..And after that my husband said he is totally devoted to my family nothing more..I will not talk to her....But Waheguru g I m a women of house and a wife I still feel from his actions that they both talk to each other again...What should I do ??? I cant talk about this anyone bcoz I dont feel like...What should I need to do??? I don't now what should I do ...Plzzz can anyone suggest what should I do?? Waiting for suggestion...plzzzz

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answered 2016-06-15 13:14:02 -0500

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Waheguru Ji ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji ki Fateh!

This point in a marriage can be a rough spot. The only way through is to remain calm and talk to your husband without being upset with him. Don't do this when you are feeling emotional. Don't be accusatory. Just be mutual and inquiring. Don't cry or whine or complain. Just give him an opportunity to open up to you. If he is having a secret relationship, it will make him feel split - sneaky and guilty. You don't need to do that. He is already doing it to himself. If he is not have a relationship, then Waheguru! Use your intuition, I'm sure you can tell if he is lying.

I am sure he loves you and the kids. If he aknowledges a problem in your marriage, then you both matha tek and receive Guru Ji's hukam together and then discuss it together until understanding emerges. Marriages require work. Marriage is the mortar and pestle in which you both place your karmas and grind them up. It is painful sometimes.

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