how to overcome the weaker being in me. As mentioned in a reply to an earlier question that one part wishes to surrender to Guru's will whereas the other part wishes to appear attractive to other people which is probably the weaker part. How to overcome the weakness or the split personality?
Good query. My answer would be have an independent identity for yourself. How you look, is not important rather how you touch lives of others is important and that is the true personality. Be neat and tidy but don't stress on physical beauty. Pray to god and always always be thankful for him to give u such a nice body. Also, find a purpose in life. Like doing specific amount of 'jap' /kirtan daily, serving poor and animals, visiting gurudwara n meditating. Slowly, you will get a mature personality and respect as well by guru's grace .
I’m struggling with the same thing right now, although by attractiveness I extend that to mean not just physically but pleasing other people too. Caring what they think of you. I think it’s an active process remembering each moment that I’m God’s child. That I’m here to do sewa, and to serve Him in whatever way is required of me today. I need to constantly and consistently make decisions that feed my soul and make me stronger and eventually that side will be the stronger side and this will get easier.
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