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asked 2015-09-23 17:02:16 -0600

Kaur29 gravatar image

Hello wondering if some one can help me please, I listen to simran on the way to work every morning, I feel like I'm going through a bad phase in life with turning 30 and unable to get married and just fed up of where I am in life!

Anyone got any suggestions of how I can get a positive out look on life!

Many thanks

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answered 2015-09-24 16:31:24 -0600

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My mind drifts to different thoughts it's hard to concentrate or clear my mind some times! I feel that I'm not concentrating so then I feel I can't connect, it's strange and hard to explain I suppose

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answered 2015-09-23 18:28:25 -0600

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absorb yourself within sikhi, negativity within yoor life is a sign of your soul crying out for somthing better than what you are providing it.

those precious minutes of naam in the car is all that you are getting fed spiritually and frankley thats not enough but its enough to get you through the moment.

the best thing to do is find gursikh sangat, and would you look at that, guru ji jas already led you here. true gursikh sangat dont judge or discriminate.

there is allot of advice that i can give but its up to you to get rid of your anxiety through taking the medicine and that medicine would be naam. awaken early in the morning at about 3:00 or 4:30 or 5:00 which ever you feel is best for you wash and then start a nitnem.



start to dealth into bani and meditate upon it, reflect on the last lines of japji. the salok;


**> Salok:

pavan guroo paanee pitaa maataa Dharat mahat. Air (life force) is the Guru, Water (contentment) is the Father, Mother is the mighty Earth (gurmat) of all.

divas raat du-ay daa-ee daa-i-aa khaylai sagal jagat. Day and night are the two nurses, in whose lap all the world is at play.

chang-aa-ee-aa buri-aa-ee-aa vaachai Dharam hadoor. Good deeds and bad deeds-the record is read out in the Presence of the Lord of Dharma.

karmee aapo aapnee kay nayrhai kay door. According to your own actions, you are drawn closer, and are driven farther away.

jinee naam Dhi-aa-i-aa ga-ay maskat ghaal. Those who have meditated on the Naam, the Name of the Lord, and depart after having worked by the sweat of their brows

naanak tay mukh ujlay kaytee chhutee naal. ||1|| -O Nanak, their faces are radiant in the Court of the Lord, and many are saved along with them! ||1||**


Hope that helped!

wjkk wjkkf !

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answered 2015-09-24 17:46:18 -0600

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Prayer is always important, but I usually view that as being a personal thing. What I find gives people true happiness is helping other people. Maybe you try doing some volunteering or help out some of your family members more. Keep building your social network too. Maybe you should try finding a new skill in life or getting some more education.

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