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asked 2015-07-28 12:50:11 -0500

Amritpal Singh gravatar image

Hi ...Dear waheguru ji as u know after completed my school education i wanted to go abroad for my furture study and i done my best for this and than i got three time refusals back to back .Even third time that agent fraud large amount of money too .Than i totally broke internally .My all dreams ,desires finsihed even i stop come to gurudwara sahib sory for that .Then i decided that i will continue my study here in india nd i did and now am in final year .My course will be completed shortly bt still am worring about my future .God u know well i dont know when i smile heartly last time . i usually cry cuz my dream dont let me sleep .now when i think about my future thn see there is no hope ...Lord plz plzz plzz help me , u help everyone than why dont mine am also ur children .i aplogise that i cut my hairs in school time i know u r punishing me cuz of that but now ....plzz help me forgive my all sins. plz show me a path or get ur life back cuz now this pain cant be tolrated .

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answered 2015-07-28 17:15:31 -0500

Guruka Singh gravatar image

Your prayer has been heard. Guru Ji gives us the experiences we need to learn what we need to learn. Throw yourself at his charan and let him arrange your affairs.

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answered 2015-07-28 13:27:59 -0500

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updated 2015-07-28 13:33:37 -0500

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

Veer Ji, stop crying and have faith everything works out for the best. This doesn't mean you give up, you learn from your past and carry on.

This life ain't all about having a good job, money, the cars and houses. Its your chance to merge back in with Waheguru and help people.

I'm not saying you can't have the above. But you should't be so caught up in them, that you start crying and lose faith in Guru Ji.

I'm in my final year studying in the UK, I'm doing a finance degree but I first applied to become a dentist and my life is working out.

I can't blame Guru Ji for not getting in dentistry that was my fault.

Why you worrying about your future. Dhan Guru Arjan Dev Ji Mahraj says:

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Start doing Path, Sewa and Simran. Start going Gurdwara and do an Ardaas in front of him to give you strength for the future. Life is tough and where always going to have times when where down.

Listen to this, about Guru Gobind Singh Ji Sons gives you some strength.

Need any more help, don't hesitate to get back.

Please forgive me if i said anything wrong or offensive.

Sat Sri Akaal

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answered 2015-07-28 18:17:03 -0500

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Have faith. Waheguru Ji will never put an obstacle in your path that you cannot overcome. He is not punishing you. He is teaching you. The lessons you learn now will help you in the future. I know how you feel when nothing is going right and isn't going your way. But Waheguru will give you strength to persevere as long as you keep faith. Change your mindset and way of thinking and you will change your life.

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answered 2015-07-28 20:03:26 -0500

Amritpal Singh gravatar image

Thanks ,Guruka Singh Ji , Gn ,and Dan for ur precious advices ...Actually last night my worries did heavy upon me nd even i couldnt sleep properly ...But it really make me feel good by seeing ur answers spl gn thanks alot bro ..As i told am in final year and doing BBA after completed it again i will apply for MBA . but this time am scary cuz on e more defeat or refusal can ruined my life ...Hope this time God will show any path cuz a desire which arise in my heart about abroad its is arised by him tooo for a specific reason...Thanks alot alot if i said something wrong thn plz forgive me.

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Bro just apply for the MBA get rejected koi na. Try next time just don't waste time and stop wasting sleep over this issue Guru Ji will solve everything. If you get rejected Im sure there is other things you can do.

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answered 2015-09-02 04:08:37 -0500

singh is king gravatar image

you: lord plz plz plz plz help me lord: what the hell is wrong with this guy, just tell him to prepare better and he can achieve all he wants !

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answered 2015-09-02 19:55:12 -0500

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Listen you need to focus on your mental state. Which can only be improved through naam and meditation. Remember all the worldly things are going to pass away, naam is the only thing that is constant. I know easier said than done. But your attitude is not doing you any favours. most of the time the answers to most of your questions lies within you. Just try to clarify your inner state through naam and trust me good things will happen. The key is to remain attached to naam through the good and bad. And this will allow you to act more calmly in situations again easier said than done but surrender to god and try. You will eventually get it god bless you

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