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asked 2015-07-22 07:42:15 -0600

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To be very clear I am 30 years old unmarried girl never have a boyfriend earlier. Left no stone unturned to get a decent job but failed in all attempts. Everyone accused me here in India people hold me responsible for remain unmarried and jobless. On top of that Waheguru is not ending all this mess. No one cares about me not even waheguru Gmom used to tell me I am his own child then why he is punishing me. I have tried a lot cooping up with the circumstances but all in vain. Sometimes feel like putting an end to my life. You know waheguru is nothing but a fake fear in our mind nothing else. Committing suicide is not a crime. When you have no aim to lead this useless life. Now I strongly believe what others think about myself is exactly waheguru think of me. Then why he is not killing me. Since he stores nothing for me.

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answered 2015-07-22 18:48:48 -0600

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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

Guru Ji himself answered your questions in today Hukamnama from Sri Harmandir Sahib.

Heres the link">

Also this 16 minute Katha for this Hukam will answer all your questions

The job market is more difficult know, many people having top degrees from top universities in the world, are having difficulty finding any job.

You say no one cares for you, we look at all the stuff Waheguru Ji does't give us and then blame him but 90% of the time we get what we want/need. We need to learn to grateful for the basic stuff we have, look at what you've got and compare to people who don't have basic stuff.

If you place no faith in Waheguru then obviously things are not going to happen to your hopes. You are his daughter trust in your dad Guru Gobind Singh Ji do an Ardaas and tell him to give you strength and motivation to find a husband and a better job.

If you think your going no where in life you going to end up going no where. Have some faith and motivation believe in yourself and Guru Ji. You going to get far with that mind set.

Life ain't easy check out this post from another forum:

ਖੰਨਿਅਹੁ ਤਿਖੀ ਵਾਲਹੁ ਨਿਕੀ ਏਤੁ ਮਾਰਗਿ ਜਾਣਾ ॥

Khanniahu Thikhee Vaalahu Nikee Eaeth Maarag Jaanaa ||

The path they take is sharper than a two-edged sword, and finer than a hair. check this video out

Nobody knows if other person is really happy or not. Materialistic gain or anything other than religion will ever bring peace to your mind. Religion is the only to make a treaty with your mind to lead a simple and bliss life. To get there, it will not be an easy task at all and you will face obstacles.

Heres the post from the forum has good advice

With your marriage problems check out the following answers give to similar questions:

1. Marriage issues question

2. Marriage Issues

3. Can't get married

4. This link has videos watch them even though the titles aren't related to your problem like can "Sikh have love marriages" has good advice for people who want to get married

Remember that even though doing path and having faith in Waheguru bad times wont come, everyone has hard times. Look at Guru Arjan Dev Ji and Guru Tegh Bahadur Sahib Ji both obtained Shaeedi.

The whole point of doing Simran, Path and Sewa is to merge back with Guru Ji and implement what he says in our lives so we can help others and when hard times get us to remain in Chardi Kala and carry on.

Guru Arjan Dev Ji said this when it was near his Shaeedi:

Tera kiya mita lage. har naam ...

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