is it okay to do oral after marriage
Or there is a restriction in sex also like how Muslims have
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Or there is a restriction in sex also like how Muslims have
Well, I'm not sure if it exactly says in Bani that oral is ok, but I mean... why? What I do know, and also heard in Katha is that that any sexual pleasures that you have here, you will regret after you die. In fact, sexual pleasure is one of the five chor within the mind ( Kam, Karodh, Lob, Moh, and Hunkar) please forgive me if any are spelled wrong. Basically, NO it is not ok to perform oral because it is a sexual pleasure and that will destroy you in life. God is here to keep you happy... Why do you even need such sexual pleasures Please forgive me if I offended you
Are you really saying that sex between married partners should not be pleasurable? If you are, I think this is a deep misunderstanding. It is one of the sweet joys of married life. The Guru says that being CAUGHT in sexual pleasure (or any other pleasure) is a trap. Not to not HAVE any pleasure.
Yes, it's fine if both partners want to do it. It needs to be consensual. My must important sex advice for you (yes, I'm qualified with 45 years of happy marriage ;-) is to take your time. Women need some time to warm up. Make love when you have the time to do more than quick release. Make sure your wife is well warmed up first.
Asked: 2015-05-01 04:51:17 -0500
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Last updated: May 03 '15