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Failing & Getting up..still never understood y waheguru is not helping me with success...

asked 2015-03-31 05:49:52 -0600

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I have worked hard over the years...still I found only failure and debts of dad...facing problems that are never ending..not understanding the reason for the same...when ever I say sum thing I will be asked to shut my mouth in a scuttle way.....people are dominating...taking everything in positive way still its hurting not able to find reason y the hell is all this happening ...alas i am fed up....just quietly working nd doing daily activities...In office pressure is always high.....My family never drinks,smokes or have drugs...we pray still there is no peace...never understood why is it happening....Office wise blame game too much pressure and i feel i am not getting that i deserve...There are people who do bad still good happens infront of my eyes...we do good still bad is happening...kinna bhoogna honda eko ek di jindagi wich......kado tak.....y is waheguru silent.......

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answered 2015-04-03 15:42:55 -0600

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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

We are going to have happy and sad times in our life. But we have to learn to just accept Waheguru Ji hukam, and carry on unaffected. This is only going to happen by Guru Ji grace, so best thing to do is not worry or stress what can we do, everything is in Guru Ji hand. So just do Path, Simran, Seva.

We have to remain in Chardi Kala. If we remain in high sprits and if someone says anything rude or offensive to us, it won't effect us and other person will eventually not bother in the future.

We have to remember that:

Kudrat kavan kahaa veechaar. vaari-aa na jaavaa ayk vaar. jo tuDh bhaavai saa-ee bhalee kaar. too sadaa salaamat nirankaar.

  • Sri Guru Arjan Dev Ji Mahraj, himself had burning hot sand put through his Kesh and wounds. He himself sat on boiling hot plates and in boiling water.

  • Sri Guru Tegh Bahadur Sahib Ji himself had his head cut, to save another religion.

  • Guru Gobind Singh Sahib Ji, himself had to sacrifice his 4 sons.

  • Bhai Mati Das Ji, Bhai Sati Das Ji and Bhai Dayla Ji had been cut in half, burnt alive and sat in boiling hot water.

    • Countless shaeeds like Bhai Mani Singh Ji, Bhai Taru Singh Ji, Mai Bago Ji and many many more.

All accepted Wahegurus hukam and never questioned why this is happening to them. So just accept Waheguru hukam, do ardaas and everything will be ok.

With your office, simple look for a new job no point of complaining.

Are families might do Path and not do bad worldly things like smoke etc. But we have to develop love for Path and Guru Ji. We have to read Path, understand Path and use Path in our life. Thats doing Path.

My family does Path we don't have peace in our home. But we might not be able change what are family does, but we can set the example by Guru Ji grace.

If people do bad they will have to pay for it one day might not be in this life, but where all going to pay for are deeds.

Please forgive me if i said anything wrong or offensive

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

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answered 2015-04-10 12:15:16 -0600

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Brother you r right.we cann't get success by chanting . This is Also happened with myself also. i ruin my important teen age in doing such types of things but wounds are still not healed.

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