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asked 2015-03-10 14:45:52 -0500

gursharan gravatar image

I am a 24 year old Sikh girl.Since childhood l have seen my father beating my mother.Once I had tried to stop all this,but my father beat me up to.I do not want him to beat my mother again.What should I DO?

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answered 2015-03-12 15:35:13 -0500

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Report it to authorities! The police will help you. The Khalsa fights things like this, so if you want to act as guru wants you to, call the police. Don't put yourself in risk any longer. Your dad may be arrested, but it will be for the better, so don't be overly attached to him and not call the police, because the true khalsa has no worldly attachements. Though his karma will come, he needs to be stopped by either therapy or jailtime.

I took a hukamnama for you:

Pauree: One who serves the Lord with all his heart - the Lord Himself unites him with Himself. He enters into a partnership with virtue and merit, and burns off all his demerits with the fire of the Shabad. Demerits are purchased cheap, like straw; he alone gathers merit, who is so blessed by the True Lord. I am a sacrifice to my Guru, who has erased my demerits, and revealed my virtuous merits. The Gurmukh chants the glorious greatness of the great Lord God. ||7||

This means that to erase the evil he has done, he must sing naam and shabad, two forms of god, and feel a deep remorse that comes by guruji's kiepaa.

Good luck I'll do many ardaases for you. Be strong you brave brave Kaur!!

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answered 2015-03-13 15:45:51 -0500

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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

Ask the Panj payre to come to your house or take your dad in front of them. They are the physical form of Guru Ji, and they can help solve this problem. If you cant do this follow what God is Good said. Do ardaas and stand strong and protect your mum. All else fails move out.

Keep doing path and simran.

Please forgive me if i said anything wrong or offesnive

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

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