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asked 2015-01-30 08:34:21 -0600

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my engagement has been broken my phiance has cheated me i was so much in love with him he is with someone else now and it was a 4 years relationship but in few days only he has chnaged please tell me will he come back will he realise what he has done why it has happend i was so loyal i was doing everything for him and his family i love him a lot i dont want to loose him

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answered 2015-02-03 07:26:26 -0600

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa..Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

Well,It may be hard times for u but don't blame anyone..we don't know what will happen in future..u were loyal and u were doing good on ur side..God is watching everything..It will be hard but don't be sad..i don't know u do paath or not but if u don't Start with reciting Waheguru and try to understand Gurbaani and as u showed love and loyalty to ur Phiance..Show it to The God..and try to be in Chardikala..Always positive and Hoping for the best..Maybe ur Phiance can come back and feel sorry..maybe he won't and u can find a better guy than him..but if u started reciting God's Name and Connect to the Guru u will be happy in any circumstances..U will accept The Hukam.

Everytime Something bad happens we feel God is being Unfair with us and he has given all the Sorrows to us but as u will Go out and see the world..the people..u will realize ..we are so much blessed..atleast we have a home..we have food..and many more things..i know writing or speaking is much more easier but just try to do this.

If my words hurted u..I am Sorry..i just wrote what i have learned from Guru...Bhull Chuk Maaf


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answered 2015-02-02 19:11:59 -0600

He's gone, please move on. He has chosen to be with someone else and not you. If he doesn't love you enough to be with you, then don't desire him. You deserve someone who will love you and not cheat on you, which is what he did to you.

Why do you want to love a cheater??? He doesn't care about you, that is why he cheated on you. If he truly cared for you, and if he was so unhappy with you, he could have shown you respect and courtesy and told you that he could not carry on having a relationship with you, BUT NO, he CHEATED on you, he deceived you.

He is a selfish guy, and disrespectful, and not loyal. So be thankful that he left you before marriage, and not after marrying you.

He was not the one for you. You deserve better. Let him go and be with whoever he wants to be with. Pray for yourself, that you get someone you deserve and who doesn't betray you like him.

How could you keep loving him, if he came back to you, and you know that he had cheated on you? That would not be a healthy relationship, deep inside, you would always hurt that he cheated on you, even if he came back.

Please just move on, and stop wanting to be with him. He is not a nice guy.

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