Relationships

asked 2015-01-19 16:28:29 -0500

Anonymous

How can i bring that mental Peace in dealing with family relationships (in-law) where all the members of my in laws ( brother-in-law, mother-in-law )keep saying mean things about my past not directly but in directly , how shall i remain calm when i am trying to do everything to keep them happy.Although Husband is good to me but what his close family says to him it poisons our relation .... very poisonous and it comes in episodes ... please help me how can i peacefully make them understand ? Waheguru

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answered 2015-01-20 17:36:40 -0500

Guruka Singh

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You can't make them understand. The blood family is where the karmas play out. The marriage is a crucible where the grinding takes place. What you can do is not react. When your kindness, grace, strength and joy are unassailable, then it matters not what anyone says. Poisonous words simply rain back down on the heads of those who utter them.