Problems in Love marriage
asked 2014-12-05 01:31:42 -0500
Anonymous
Hi, I am going through a very tough face in my life...I am a sikh girl who wants to marry a hindu guy. Since childhood I have been living with my mother and Maternal grand parents and Uncles and aunts. As My mom and dad had problems in their married life and later in life got divorced. Since childhood i never enjoyed equal rights as of my cousin and had gone through a hard life wherein My mom was being tortured by my mama and mami's. My Nana also never supported my mom.I started earning at young age and like others i also wanted to get married to a nice guy always as this was only ray of hope for my mother and me. But nobody ever ooked for any guy for me later and now I am 29 and because of society my nanaji is looking for a sikh guy for me and none of my mama is not supporting and talking to him on my subject. The problem with me is I like a guy and also shared with my mom about me wanted to get married to him and shared the same with my Nana and nani, masi and whosover was important as want this marriage to happen on good note and with blessings of everyone. Nobody has any problem except my mother who is creating a hue and cry about me choosing a guy who is not well off. I am assuring her constantly that he is a good guy, may be he is not well off, but he cares for me and I am happy with him as i know him from past 5 years. I dont want to get married to anybody else , cant leave my mom or this guy. Please help me. Suggest If there is any shabad or mantra in gurbani with the help of which my mother permits me to get married to him. Else I have to take a hard step to run from house. Which I dont want :(