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asked 2014-07-25 23:41:38 -0500

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I am a 14 year old boy and I am a Sikh. I wanted to know if is it bad to kiss strangers? By strangers I mean other non-sikh women that are older than me. I dont have any sexual desires. I just want to kiss them on the lips. Is this wrong?

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answered 2014-08-13 05:19:06 -0500

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Is this wrong?

Nothing is right or wrong, thinking just makes it so.

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You write that you want to kiss "specifically" non-sikh women that are older then you. Which I want answer your question with a number of questions.

1 .Why don't you want to kiss sikh women on the lips around your age of 14?

Is it because just because nothing is right or wrong does it means it comes with no consequences as well? Will kissing sikh girls around 14 years of age cause thier big brothers to beat you up to a pulp because you've dishonored their family's honor and Namus?

The only thing they got left from when they migrated to a new country? While kissing older non-sikhs girls, getting beaten to a pulp will less likely to happen?

2. Why do you want to kiss older girls on the lips at all?

Have you ever thought about that? Is that why you are asking if it's right or wrong? If it's not not a sexual drive, can it be that you want to feel loved?


At your age when I was 14 years of age, without getting in any details I wanted to have sex with a third of the girls at my school. Not getting any sex at that age made me very frustrated. "Getting" sex was my food and not getting any "food" left me very very very "starved".

It wasn't until after I turned 24 that I understood that I was unbalanced because of my upbringing. And now it is my responsibility to clean myself so that I can be balanced and serve my purpose that Waheguru gave me.

Maybe that is what you are asking? How do I create a balance in your life? Well here is the perfect video. image description

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Whatever you're looking for in your kisses please reply. Good luck. /Cloud.

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