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Boyfriend and regrets

asked 2012-09-21 05:53:48 -0500

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Ssa ji my sikh sisters and brothers, i really need your help. When I was 15 I fell in love with a boy. We had a relationship but he was really bad and disrespectfull against my family and me. Now im 18 and i really regret this relationship, i feel really dirty ( we kissed but nothing more ) and i betrayed my family, who does everything for me, for him. He was a really bad influence and i even had to repeat the class because i never went to school. Now 3 years later i feel so bad and could cry all the time, how could i betray my family, how could i be in a relationship..i feel like i have no pride anymore.. Please help me how can i feel better. I fell so unpure and dirty..He also was offensive against my mother but i stand by his side and i just dont know why..

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answered 2012-09-27 02:07:34 -0500

Karanjit Singh gravatar image


very easy...ask Waheguru (Satguru ji)

Guru Sahib ji solves every problem...

"Please help me how can i feel better" -> Without the Lord's Name, there is no peace at all. How can the mind be comforted?

First you have to have your personal relashion with Satguru ji -> Become Amritdhari Then you will get a Tool a Weapon - Gurmanter and Moolmanter -> do countless Abhiyaas of as thought (GURMAT ABHIYAAS). See the result.

You cant change the Past; learn from it. Dont see it bad, act now.. What to do?

One who is dear to the Lord, is dear to all; so many others come and go in vain. ||17||

Guru Sahib Says, if you please God, everyone will love you - as God is everywhere.

Try it and see how light you will feel.

Excruciating pain, countless killings, reincarnation, poverty and terrible misery are all destroyed by meditating in remembrance on the Lord's Name, Satguru Nanak Dev ji Maharaj teaches, just as fire reduces piles of wood to ashes. ||18||

This Pankti of Satguru Arjan DEv ji Mahraj lift someone up.. you can be the worst person. If you meditate on Naam everything will be destroyed. All your bad Karma.

Lets do it. Get the tool and feel Wahegurus blessing:)

Karanjit Singh

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Awesome answer brother! couldn't have said it better myself :)

PeaceHappinessSikhism gravatar imagePeaceHappinessSikhism ( 2012-10-25 02:49:17 -0500 )edit

answered 2012-12-03 18:37:59 -0500

Sardar Sukhmeet Singh gravatar image

Just one thing can free you from this, that is known to us as amrit, amrit chacko, forget about your family, your only parents are Guru Gobind Singh and Mata Sahib Kaur, your only brothers and sisters are the Sikhs, this is all you need, your parents will never reaccept you the same, off course they will let you live with them, but no one only Waheguru is good

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