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Intercourse before marriage.

asked 2014-04-17 06:41:31 -0600

Jagdeep Kaur gravatar image


I am an amritdhari girl and i am about 18 years. And i am in love with an amritdhari boy(20 years) . We are from 3 years in relationship and we love each other very truly . Our parents also know about our realtionship very well and they gave permission to get marriage . We have trust on each other and we are very happy with each other by the grace of guru . Recently , he decided to go to foreign for a good job to make our future secure . Before he go foreign we want to have inter* with each other . i am very very confused . that is it right or wrong?

I had heard from somewhere that true loving couples can have it,even before marriage . i m totally confused. but if we look our true love then we find it not to be wrong thing.

Please please help me.!!...


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answered 2014-04-17 17:50:29 -0600

Guruka Singh gravatar image

You say "we want." Why do you want this, Beta? This is a very important question. Contemplate it carefully. You are at a crossroads. Clearly you have some doubts. If your intuition has perked up and given you doubts, you may be feeling that there might be a problem. Otherwise you would not have posted this question.

Marriage is much more than "true love." Marriage is between two souls. Those souls are bound together by the Guru, not by having sexual intercourse. Have intercourse one time and then go to a foreign country? Why? Despite one's best intentions, things can go pear shaped when one least expects it. What is wrong with waiting?

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not dishonor others. It is not self-seeking.

Breathe deep. Become still. Bring your doubts to the Guru's feet. You will know the right course of action.

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