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Vikaars, true

asked 2014-03-30 14:34:11 -0500

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updated 2014-03-30 14:38:52 -0500

Sat Sri Akal, ji

I have this question for you. There's something strange about this situation but look at the following;

I have trouble to attain my routine of prayers I personally think it's because of surrounding people The Problem actually is I don't know Who But I do know that it is because of some speculars person that my vikaars do increase, and I do feel that when they are in my presence

So my question is how to avoid and how to recognize so people, because even if they're not in my presence I do feel that my Vikaars are increasing sometimes because of bad company, Can It lay on the fact that referring and that somehow near causing me?

I feel that I'm still in bad company, but I don't know how to get out of it.. I'm becoming exhausted of finding out this I do know that it's because of my bad family but I'm married now I was married before I came to know about Waheguru but now I just feel the Limit

My husband is also envolved with this, I don't know where to go my life seems Perfect, but just without the God Feeling I don't want this life untill i feel I'm Right going without God there's nothing at all,.. How do I find out where the problem comes from? It's like rotating and I feel I'm gettin more in the situation as I actually want to get out of this.. I feel I'm really in Trouble I mean it I have found the sadh sangat but I'm still not happy as something causes my simran and abhiyaas to go wrong, or like I can not attain it Always something happen bad and I feel Maybe It's still something I do wrong or I not realized it but my time is running out so I need advice of someone if someone can see the light in this of all I wrote ..the answer..

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answered 2014-05-15 11:35:27 -0500

Guruka Singh gravatar image

Your life is formed by what you choose to think about. It's like watering a plant. When you give a plant water, it grows. When you do not water it, it dies. You are focusing on the "problem" and giving it your attention. The more attention you give it, the more it grows. Focus instead on what you can do, not on what you think others are doing. Your attention is precious. Use it wisely.

No one can stop you from meditating and doing path. This is only between you and your own consciousness. Be steady, be focused, be consistent.

Focus on Naam and control your own thoughts. When you catch yourself going into that pattern of thinking. Utter "Waheguru!" out loud and cust through the thought and change it. It's your mind. Learn to control it.

"Man jeetai jag jeet" Conquer your own mind and conquer the world (Guru Nanak Dev Ji)

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