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How can i find suitable girl for me? I can't trust anybody !

asked 2014-01-23 13:37:25 -0500

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Few years ago, I have decided to not get married, as i couldn't find and divine soul girl anywhere nearby. I have believed that every girl ruins the spiritual life of others. Because of this belief, i have loosen a girl who adored/followed me for 3 years.

But now, i realized that it is necessary to get married to diminish the effect of Kalyug.Once, I got a chance to live away from my parents for 1 year, during which I realized, due to loneliness my spiritual life is getting declined. My mind was getting disturbed, by looking happiness in couples as i was feeling very unhappy being alone. finally i have decided to get married.

I want to marry a girl who is pure,divine,pure-soul.I want such a girl who can uplift my spiritual life, who can drives me towards naam-simran, amrit vela care, sewa. With whom i can feel myself with sadh-sangat. I strongly need such a company as i am living a unorganized life, wasting my time in in useless activities and evils.

I don't want to marry such a girl with whom i got indulge in useless issues and waste my time.

BUT i afraid how will i find such a girl? I can't trust any girl. Don't know how to check suitability of any girl for me.

Please reply, assuming that the girl which i will find suitable, will also accept me. Thanks

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answered 2014-04-04 15:59:46 -0500

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Veer ji no one can bring you close to waheguru ji and your spiritual life but YOU. Ask waheguruji for support in this and you yourself also spend quality time with waheguru ji. Feel waheguruji everywhere you go,when you wake up, go to sleep, walk, talk , sleep. Mainly waheguru ji is right next to you and within you, so tell waheguru ji how you feel and when you start to build that connection with waheguru ji even more you will start to have a natural instant feeling of what feels RIGHT and what doesn't .

kharag kait mai sarni tehari. aap hath dai laio oobari. sarb thor mo hohu sahaei. dust dokh tai laiho bchaei. (25) O The Lord of Sword, I seek Your protection. With Your Hands you have guarded me. At All Times be my Support. Save me from wickedness and pain. (25)

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Also veerji forget looking at anyone else. Guru granth Sahib ji already clearly recites don't look any one above you but we should look at everyone below us. For example think when you look at people with flashy cars and houses you're naturally allowing a seed to plant, when you look at someone below without a house, example the homeless- and your going to be very thankful to Waheguruji.

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