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asked 2013-10-02 07:40:26 -0500

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Satsriakal Ji,

I have been experiencing pains from others interfering in my personal life, or in my household, For years I have been quiet and just pry things to get better, and not confront the people who cause true pain, pain meaning emotional pain. But sometimes is it better to confront the person causing trouble, or just pry situations will get better? I believe in telling in the truth always, if someone lies and gets away with away from lying and causing harm, should we be quite and pry for better? what to do? Thank You.

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answered 2013-10-02 19:51:59 -0500

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Dear Friend,

Confronting a person who's causing pain wouldn't be an issue, so long your intentions and emotions are under your control, and your "acting" to the situation and not "reacting" to the situation. If you're wishing to confront the person to release your emotional pain in anger, frustration or hatred, I would avoid it until you can calm down, breathe, and speak in a serious but calm tone.

It depends on the situation if you should just pray it gets better, once you've done everything you possibly can with love, you should just keep praying to Guru Ji to resolve it. (The ability to do things with love is the strength and gift from Guru Ji, so you should pray for that during the process).

That's an amazing trait you have, I commend you, always telling the truth is one of the hardest things. Even I lie sometimes,and that always passes through my head, that I shouldn't have lied. A person who lies shows lack of trust and faith in Guru Ji, a person who is truly truthful, has strong faith and trust in Guru Ji for all outcomes of any situation. To answer you question, anyone who lies and causes harm, you should let it be known they've lied. Of course, you'd have to analyze each situation on how you should let it be "known" as you don't want to humiliate person or hurt someone's feeling without fully understanding the situation first.

Hope that helps a bit.

Good luck,

-Namastwang Akaale, Namastwang Kirpaale!

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answered 2013-10-02 20:47:21 -0500

Rupinder gravatar image

Satsriakal ji,

Thank you friend, for your response. I also believe what you say, I confronted the person but no one supported the truth when I confronted that person, I felt all alone fighting for the truth. Know I just pry to God that the situation gets better. And thank you also for reminding me to Pry to God that problems should resolve through love, but not through anger, or emotions.

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