Can amritdhari girl can do marriage with non amritdhari guy?

asked 2013-05-12 10:09:38 -0500

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Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh,'

I am an amritdhari girl there was 1 guy who proposed me long back & i rejected his proposal because of family problems and restrictions. After 3-4 months when there was no conversation at all I said him Yes for his proposal. He said No its not possible nw & I askd the main reason behind that he said that I cant be amritdhari because its very difficult to follow all this & my family r not expecting an amritdhari girl in our house. When I askd him tht thn why u proposed me he said I love you bt i cant be amritdhari.if u love me then be non-amritdhari for me. I said him I cant do this because for me my everything is my raab & bec of him we met each other. Just a simple question please reply how he can be amrithdari because I am not in contact with him. He said me tht i shd never call or msg him. How he can change & be back in my life. Wht shd I do bec 1 side my raab is there & other side he. Please give a proper solution. Waiting for your reply.

answered 2013-05-13 03:39:18 -0500

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Waheguru jeeo

Things come to crossroads at times...isn't it

Take your call carefully and in such a manner that wahetever you may chose, you do not regret at a later stage that it'd been better had I chosen the other way. Basically, stick to what you chose.

Amrit was supposed to help you forward. To equip you with the proximity of a Guru whose judgement you would trust when your own seems to be perplexed. It wasn't meant to be a stone on the road for you.

'jee kee birthaa hoye so gur peh ardaas karr'

Life won't end at this decision of yours. It'll continue unfettered bringing the same surprises and yet difficult crossroad situations no matter what way you chose to tread today. Though a descion in that stage will expose you to a lot of learning via experience (good or bad) for the time that is yet to come.

Be wise (remember mann nivaan ...matt uchee) and take your call.

Lastly, on the point that 'Wht shd I do bec 1 side my raab is there & other side he'. Look closely, is it really the case. And suppose, I get a perect answer to my question aat this moment, can i gaurantee that i'd never put myself in the same situation where I'd again start seeing this choice between rabb and something/someone. When and where do I stop is what I feel we need to realize and learn from this ordeal.

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