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I love a girl deeply

asked 2013-05-09 20:52:57 -0500

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I love a women deeply. She got married and having a one girl. her husband committed suicide and passed away. She has an extra marital affair. but still i love that women and wants to marry and make both lifes beautiful.

he mind is not at all stable. she gives commitment and later again she changes her mind and after few days again she does the same what should i do guru ji i cannot live with out her i want to marry her and make her good and teach her what is life and value of life

only god should help me

Vikram singh

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answered 2013-05-10 09:00:29 -0500

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Let's face the facts. She got married. She had a girl. Her husband died. She went out with some other guy. It clearly shows what importance she gives to you. If you think your love will change her, I am sorry my friend, it has not changed her a lot or made her caring for you. She still changes her mind. I don't know how you can teach her the value of life. You have put your own personal life on hold for this woman, and it still looks like a lost cause. Let me tell you things never really get better. People don't change unless God wills. Is the whole aim of your life to have her?

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answered 2013-05-10 15:29:31 -0500

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You do not want to marry some one like this if you truly love them give them bani to improve there lives remember we do not look upon women or others wifes with lust as you have they are our mother and sisters. you will find the oure singhni. not this one.

this is the command of you khalsa i guess. Waheguruji kak halsa wahegruuji ki fateh

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answered 2013-05-10 22:51:49 -0500

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We often feel that this person should behave this way or that way to have a better life. It comes from good feelings for the person and we feel sad when we see others not understanding our point of view. However the biggest fact that we fail to understand is that we life our lives per WAHEGURUs hukam. HUKME ANDAR SAB KO BAHAR HUKAM NA KOE. Whatever she is doing or behaving is a part of that hukam that she and you are destined for. If you are meant to be together nothing can stop and if not then all efforts are futile. Focus on carrying on a value based life and leave the rest to Almighty. He knows what is best for us. Have faith. Satnam.

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