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asked 2013-05-08 05:53:42 -0500

JasPinduh gravatar image

Waheguru Ji ka Khalsa, waheguru Ji ki fateh

I tend to be scared of insects ( usually spiders, bees , wasps, bugs ) and nothing else ... How do I get rid of fear ?

Thank you , waheguru Ji ka Khalsa , waheguru Ji ki fateh

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answered 2013-05-08 09:14:41 -0500

kanwaljit.singh gravatar image

One needs to be careful of bees because they sting. But let fear go. See them as nature, organisms of God trying to live their life. Going about what is there in the DNA. I used to be afraid of dogs. Then I met my cousin's pet and my life changed. Maybe if you watch and learn about insects, you will feel better. As said in Batman Begins, you always fear what you don't understand.

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answered 2013-05-08 11:36:25 -0500

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updated 2013-05-08 11:38:42 -0500

"I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear." - Nelson Mandela

I was scared, well terrified, of cycling on the roads instead of the pavement, in case a car might run me over. But I did it, at first my heart would be pounding everytime a car drove past me, but now I'm absolutely fine. The thing is, fear goes and courage comes after you've experienced or done something you're quite frightened of, not before you do the scary thing.

Maybe you could just talk to them like they're your pal like:

*Me: Oh, hey whoa, this shower is occupied.

Spider: Omg man I didn't see you there.

Me: We cool?

Spider: Yeah, yeah, we're cool. I'm just coming down to scope out the tub.

Me: Oh, that's legit. Hey, you might wanna move over some--you're descending right into the shower stream and I don't want you to drown.

Spider: Hey thanks, bud. I'll be careful.

Me: So...can I get out now?

Spider: Sure, sure! Sorry I'll just move over here.

Me: Thanks. You have a nice night. Don't come into my bedroom, okay?

Spider: Nah, that's your space. We're cool. Have a great evening.*

Something I tumbld across. LOL

Vahegurooo <3

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answered 2013-05-08 10:07:30 -0500

Nihang Gavinpal Singh Khalsa gravatar image

ahhhh! wah... khalsa fateh ji

so did i before i i realized that a nihang must be fearless show love to the souls of the insects after all they are waheguru now i love insects i realize that they are more frightend of me then i am of them. insects are peacefull creatures mostly squashed by us but remember what guru ji says in japji

remember not even all the wealth abd domain in the world could comapre to an ant filled with the love of god. show love what i di us allow woundering insects to live in my room like spiders or lady bugs my room isnt dirty but i dont want them to be killed or squashed so i promise that my room is a sancturary to them and let them be i even save them.

its a sewa and a way or riding karma also they can listen to my bani.

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answered 2017-07-31 03:52:29 -0500

There are over 40,000 known species of spiders. Some are venomous and some aren’t, so if you spot a spider at your home or any other place you better stay away from it. Spiders rarely bite humans however there are worst case scenarios where they do. For example, in your innocence or fun you might try to catch them and make them angry which may result in spider bite. If that happens, you might not be keeping a spider repellent with you all the time, right? Always keep a spider repellent with you, or contact us if you’re wondering how to get rid of spiders.

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