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asked 2013-03-01 10:23:08 -0600

gurjeet kaur gravatar image

ssa.. i am a married woman.. who was married to a guy who use to trim his beard but not anymore... i come from a family who believes in guru sahib and follow his teachings ...and even i do.. i really appreciate that guru ji has given me such good parents... whatever i know.. i have learned it from them.. i have grown up seeing my dad praying and meditating on gods name a lot... he is my hero.. i really want to be like him..... but here .. in my in-laws.... everyone is totally opposite, my father in law has now started believing in waheguru a lot... n i thank baba ji for this.. even i am not perfect.. i mean m nt even near to perfect.. but yes i do believe in guru ji n i want to be so close to him... but i am really lazy .. i skip paths.. :( n i hate myself for this.. i really want to know how do i make my mind stable.. i know by chanting naam.. but m too lazy.. or is it like baba ji is testing me?

is it important to do path or is it okay if u remember god the whole day and thank u him for everything n dont do path... please reply and help me.. i hope i make sense to you.. i really had no clue what i was goin to ask.. i wanted to ask but dnt have the right words.. :s m really bad at expressing ...sorry :(

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answered 2013-03-01 23:38:47 -0600

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I really hope you do well my dear. There is alot with which I can relate to you. I didnt have similar situations, but trust me, I have been something very very related.

We keep on crying thinking our family isnt Gursikh isnt it? But just wait and try to look at positive. I was very glad to hear when you said your father in law started believing in Waheguru. This is so great! It is nothing but pure Waheguru ji's Kirpa!! Positivity is very important. Think about all the good Karams he is making. Never forget to look at positive side

Yes it is very important to do paath and remember Waheguru the whole day. Guru ji says soo many times in Gurbani that, if one strong Gursikh is in the family, it can make all the generations saved... This is a very big thing isnt it. Somebody gave me an advise and it actually worked! When I can all depressed, somebody told me if you stop thinking about bad things your family does and not follow Guru ji and you focus on YOURSELF to become a better Gursikh, wonders can happen! Stop focusing to make them good, focus and try hard to make yourself as spiritually high as you can. By looking at you they will experience very different. The color of Guru ji's love will play it's part and they may also get colored by it. And in my case, it happend!!!! :D :D :D Waheguru!!!! . So if you want to become a true Gursikh, it is important to do paath. Mind is our biggest culprit who makes us lazy. You have to fight fight very hard.

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