How do i stop this mindset???
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I'm 19 y/o and an Asian. I work in a FnB restaurant which is in a shopping mall. I'm the only girl worker and the rest are guys. The job is kinda dirty. My shirt and apron and jeans get wet and dirty sometimes. All the guys workers are okay. As usual,they talk dirty among themselves and of course i can hear them and sometimes they get me involved in their dirty jokes but that's fine to me. I'm service crew but when i have the time,i actually go at the back and help the kitchen workers. To wash plates and sweep and wipe things. Of course i get wet and dirty washing plates right. So i have an issue that i want someone to advice me.
-I do my work kinda fast so sometimes we hit each other bodies accidentally because the both of us are in hurry. ( the guys and me ) -whenever the guys workers see me,they say hii. Like shake hands or touch my shoulders or my hands. ( in a good way ) I'm okay with all these but whatever i do,i'm always like 'will i get pregnant???' Idk how to stop having this mindset tho. I'm always willing to do heavy and dirty jobs but i cant deal with my mind thinking if all these could get me pregnant. How do i stop
