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lack of my dad's love ?

asked 2013-01-29 07:52:53 -0600

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we are 2 sisters and one brother in 1996 my father remarried another women after my mother death . he now passed away in 2012 leaving all his property and all his money in that another ladies name nothing for his own children why do some father act like this

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answered 2013-01-29 11:42:48 -0600

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I feel really sorry for you, but we are not here to judge people or there actions. Your father may have had a reason for this, but you should not assume that he does not love you. Money and items aren't everything.Whatever God wanted to happen has happened and can't be changed. There is no use of thinking or worrying about this matter, it will not change your fathers actions.

Besides even if your father didn't love you, God has always been there with you and has always been giving you love and worldly pleasures.As long as you remember him and listen to him you will be fine.

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answered 2013-05-19 08:31:25 -0600

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I have faced the same problem. my mother was given arsenic poison by my father. she survived but had physical issues and finally succumbed to cancer. he had in the meantime been living with a woman and had a son by her when my mother was alive. he never looked after my brother and me . we had to live on charity of our relatives . i am settled now but the memories are painful. whenever i have needed help and i have been desperate, i have prayed to the waheguru to help me as a father and i have been helped. so trust in waheguru . he will look after you in his own way. sometimes we are not destined to receive our biological father's love. you will have to come to terms with it and move on in life. interestingly my father is still alive and is very rich.

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answered 2013-05-20 20:13:06 -0600

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eveyone has their problems...pittah ji said ..nanak dukhiya sabb sansaar....so fight ...akalllll

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answered 2013-05-21 19:02:04 -0600

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Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh

Look in my opinion... Money is not everything you should only count in yourself and god in life ...if he gave the money to that lady instead of you and your siblings ... You should just be gratefull that god still blesses you . God must have other plans for you . In a certain way (not to be offensive) but your "father " is not obligated to "love" you . And don't take anything he does personally ... Be strong and depend on yourself ... And hey ... I love you so cheer up and smile ! :)

Waheguru Ji ka Khalsa waheguru Ji ki fateh

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