Divorce issue

asked 2019-10-23 08:07:29 -0500

Anonymous

updated 2019-10-23 10:46:25 -0500

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I got married two years ago and was facing problems since then with my in laws and my husband too but was still managing to save my marriage but lost my hope 3 months ago when i was not able to take the stress anymore.I came to my parents place and they didnt even contacted and then i decided to ask to babaji that what should i do further, so i did ardas and took a hukamnama but still i am confused and didnt understood what babaji is trying to convey. I just want you all to help me to understand the message. Hukamnama is "Har praan prabhu sukhdaate gur prasaad kaahu jaate''

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answered 2019-10-23 10:45:39 -0500

Guruka Singh

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updated 2019-10-24 10:04:05 -0500

ANG 529: DAYV-GANDHAAREE, FIFTH HOUSE:
The Lord God is my praanaa, my very breath of life He is the Giver of peace. By Guru’s Grace, only a few know Him. || Pause ||
Your Saints are Your Beloveds; death does not consume them.
They are dyed in the deep crimson color of Your Love. They are intoxicated with the sublime essence of the Lord’s Name. || 1 ||
The greatest sins, and millions of pains and diseases, are destroyed by Your Gracious Glance, O God. While sleeping and waking, Nanak chants 'Har, Har, Har' and falls at the Guru’s feet.

The message is that your own soul is your soulmate. The love of Naam and the longing for the One are the true expressions of love. All other love is a reflection of that One True Love.

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But what is this conveying on my marriage? can u help

mannat kaur ( 2019-10-24 08:05:24 -0500 )edit

Please meditate on the interpretation I gave above _/\_

Guruka Singh ( 2019-10-24 10:33:05 -0500 )edit

But i didnt understood

mannat kaur ( 2019-10-24 13:50:01 -0500 )edit

The hukam means to focus on the one relationship that will last. Focus on your paath, your japa and your simran. Go deeper into your relationship with your own soul. Your husband will do what he will do. Invite him to join you.

Guruka Singh ( 2019-10-25 10:23:29 -0500 )edit

We are not living together and he is not so religious. So should i focus on just doing path and let babaji decide what should happen with me? is this the hukam??

mannat kaur ( 2019-10-25 13:22:39 -0500 )edit

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answered 2019-10-23 18:39:05 -0500

teraBanda
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Maybe your soulmate is also going to be divorced , only divorced people marry each other. Good thing is you don't have a kid with your husband so you can easily get married again

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"Har praan prabhu sukhdaate gur prasaad kaahu jaate'' - >

He bestows happiness to each soul, this awareness is also obtained if he blesses.

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But what babaji is trying to convey

mannat kaur ( 2019-10-24 08:14:16 -0500 )edit

Babaji is saying that there is Suffering and Happiness in life and you don't have control over it, If you want to stay sad whole life that is also not possible and if you want to stay happy whole life that is also not possible, Things will keep happening to you

teraBanda ( 2019-10-24 15:04:45 -0500 )edit

So what should i do, Like go towards divorce or patch up??

mannat kaur ( 2019-10-25 08:43:22 -0500 )edit

I have taken hukamnama again today like i asked babaji should i approach my husband or not, the hukamnama came was "tu jaane taa koi jaane tera ditaa naam wakhaane"

mannat kaur ( 2019-10-25 08:50:11 -0500 )edit

You should do what your heart tells you to do, Hukamnama isn't the way to answer all life problems tu jaane taa koi jaane tera ditaa naam wakhaane means -> One who knows God knows really knows something, He who attaches himself with God stands out. Not sure about translation

teraBanda ( 2019-10-25 13:04:11 -0500 )edit

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