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What i am doing is right or something else i should do ?

asked 2019-09-13 03:59:40 -0500

Jaipreet Singh gravatar image

updated 2019-09-16 10:51:59 -0500

Guruka Singh gravatar image

When my mother was born her grandmother started crying that a girl has taken birth in their house and sent my mother to her mother's parents.She remained there for 6 years which my mother says were the best days of her life after when a son was born in my Grandfather's house she was brought back to her father's house where she was treated as a inferior to her brothers.My mother got educated and had a Govt job and later got married to my father who won a president award "Udham shiri" in Bussiness and he made my mother to left his job.My father made a factory in which his sisters and parents were interested so my mother's inlaws were bad with her.They used to upset her because of money and my father also had bad relationships with my mother's brothers and father.Due to things become more messed up and even my father's behavior with my mother was bad.Later my elder brother got married in 2011 and my father used to say her that like your Grand Father had suppressed your grand mother and the same way i had suppressed your mother you should also suppress your wife and my brother had done a M.B.A degree from york university from canada but he was very much impressed from his father and always used to take my Father's and my mother's inlaws side in home where as i am always used to take my mother's side.My Father is very stressed,tensed and angry person and my brother is even more bad then my father in anger and criticizing things.They both are very Business minded people and even when we have crores of money in our Bank accounts and many crores properties they are still greedy for more money.As my parents relationship were worse same has happened to my brother and his wife.They both fight with each other in anger and this also had affected the nature of their 8 years daughter who also shouts and get angry a lot.My mother is taking medicine for depression for 25 years,my brother and father are taking medicine for anger and my sister in law is also taking medicine for anger.I have been to a rehabilitation centre for few monthes for getting violent.The way my brother's daughter is behaving it lookes like later she also has to take medicine for anger problems.There is a strong Patriarchy system going in our households which is getting weak everyday.Even though we have lots of money but still peace and happiness has fled away from house.After 2002 i became very close to Gurbani and also made my mother close to Gurbani.My mother has done more than 50 times Guru Granth Sahib sehej Path and her only hobby is to go to Sukhmani Sahib Path Programmes weekly.But things are ... (more)

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answered 2019-09-16 10:50:44 -0500

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updated 2019-09-16 10:53:02 -0500

Gurfateh Jaipreet Singh Ji! Wow, you have a lot of drama in your family. In time, these dramas begin to occupy everyone's time. No matter how much you love them, you cannot change others. What you can do is keep your own spiritual practice solid and strong, keep your heart open and not react to the dramas. Your prayers are powerful. Just be steady and loving and keep up. So, have your parents begun doing paath together?

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yes for 3-4 days they have done path.

Jaipreet Singh gravatar imageJaipreet Singh ( 2019-09-16 22:46:51 -0500 )edit

May they be blessed to keep up.

Guruka Singh gravatar imageGuruka Singh ( 2019-09-17 10:36:20 -0500 )edit

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