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Is being nice a wrong thing?

asked 2019-04-01 09:22:29 -0600

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updated 2019-04-10 12:23:31 -0600

Guruka Singh gravatar image

WJKK WJKF! I'm a 18 y/o girl who just graduated from highschool. My dad,mum and my brother isn't really chill. I must say that i don't get mad easily but i am kind of sensitive. I'm going to work in a few months time. All i want to do is,give money to people out there who need help. I want to help people bcs it makes me feel so good! My problem is ; I have been losing so many people this past few days. They tell me things and all but i don't wanna be rude to them bcs i don't like it. It hurts me but i still smile. I forgive people alot. But they repeat the same thing. Idk if this is wrong but i like talking to people on whatsapp. Like talk about life,get closer. Be there for them. But idk man. I'm falling apart these days. I have seen girls talking shit but nahh man,i'm not like that. I'm friendly. Even if it's a guy,i will still meet up and maybe give them a friendly hug. I like helping people!

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answered 2019-04-10 12:23:35 -0600

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Dear T Kaur Ji, Waheguru Ji. People want you to be just like them. They do this because it makes them feel better about themselves. But you must be YOU. You don't have to please anyone. You don't have to be who they think you are, and you don't have to be who you think you are. You must be YOU.

When you are firm in your own caliber then you attract others of like mind, and those who vibrate at lower frequencies naturally fall away.

Don't worry about what to do, e.g., give money to others. Just focus on letting go of your reactions, expectations and attachments and meditate on your breath. As you become more chill within yourself you will stop reacting to others words and actions. As you stop reacting your pain and hurt will fall away. You don't have to decide what seva to do. Guruji will let you know what to do and when it is time to do it.

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Thank you so much Ji!

Tkaurr gravatar imageTkaurr ( 2019-04-12 06:16:12 -0600 )edit

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