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What happens to Laava, if your partner passes away

asked 2018-12-15 05:06:21 -0500

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updated 2018-12-18 10:21:25 -0500

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My partner passed away and i feel broken, i believe in the Laava we did at the Anand Karaj, but what now ? We were two souls as one but now she is no longer here, is her soul still connected to mine ?

Any information would be greatly appreciated.


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answered 2018-12-16 18:43:58 -0500

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Waheguru ji ka khalsa, Waheguru ji ki fateh,

"Jamna marna hukam hai" - This is all the will of god, and i'm glad that you still want to feel connected to your wife after she's gone. I am no one to tell you about what to do or not, as this is completely your decision (regarding another marriage). However, with your question, I personally believe that after death, we go back to god (pawane mein pawan samaaya, joti mein jot ral jaaya, maati maati hoyi ek). Thus, if you continue to believe in god and know that god is everywhere, then, it's possible to stay connected to your wife as she's basically returned back to god. We're all unsure about what happens after death, so I cannot be sure, but with faith and love, everything is possible. Hence, believe in what you wish but make decisions having your life in mind too :) Bhul Chuk Muaf Karni ji, Waheguru ji bhala karn.

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answered 2018-12-17 10:19:48 -0500

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Yes, your souls are bound together beyond a single lifetime. Time between lifetimes does not run by any clock.

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answered 2018-12-17 12:43:05 -0500

Redoptics gravatar image

Thank you, this is all surreal, im so confused at the moment, me and my wife get back on track and then she is taken from me.

I do not know what lessons to learn, im trying but it is very difficult, i just want my wife to be at peace.

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You don't have to be worried about her peace, she's with god. Nothing beats that peace. Just accept this as will of god. Guru Gobind Singh ji had his whole family taken.

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