Waheguru ji ka khalsa, Waheguru ji ki fateh,
Agreed with Guruka Singh, but also want to ad something. Aren't we all humans and children of the same god. Then, as a sikh, you shouldn't be creating boundaries. Rather, accept her and live your personal married life to the full extent. Guru Nanak Dev ji told us to not believe in superstition and or see anyone lower than us, which you will do if you see her any different to you and maintain distance only because she's hasn't had her amrit. Aval allah noor upai kudrat ke sab bande. Bhul Chuk Muaf karni.