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What is "Sopurkh" shabad paath for?

asked 2018-11-26 10:59:40 -0500

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updated 2018-11-28 12:39:44 -0500

Guruka Singh gravatar image

If you partner left you due to misunderstanding anger, would this help. Where can I find the link or where do I find it in the gurbani in rehras sahib? If your partner is mad at you, would this calm them down? I read it was given by Guru Ram Das ji to women, what was the purpose behind it. Would it help strengthen relation with husband?

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answered 2018-11-26 16:19:51 -0500

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It is the very beginning of the Rehiras Sahib: "Sopurkh Nirinjan, Harpurph Nirinjan Here is a link to a lovely, simple recitation by Nirinjan Kaur.

Sopurkh was given by Guru Ram Das to women as a way of helping them raise the vibration of the men in their lives by relating to their highest potential, their soul and their destiny, rather than their ego.

A woman can recite Sopurkh for a particular man in her life, such as her husband, to help him live up to his full potential; or she can recite it to attract her perfect mate if she has not met him yet. Sopurkh, if recited for a minimum of 11 times a day for 40 straight days, is said to manifest Godliness in physical male form before the eyes of a woman.

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Would it help in marriage, heal broken marriage due to misunderstandings between families and among us due to family involvement. It would help him see his spiritual side? I hope he forgives me one day as he holds me responsible for everything that happened to him, lost job etc after marriage.

kaurlife gravatar imagekaurlife ( 2018-11-26 18:12:20 -0500 )edit

Yes, if there is a bond between the souls, daily Sopurkhs will help him experience his soul and potential. For family, best is ardas for the karmas to be paid as gracefully as possible with Guru Ji's kirpa.

Guruka Singh gravatar imageGuruka Singh ( 2018-11-28 12:29:40 -0500 )edit

I read somewhere I should keep my "husband's" photo in front while doing paath since we are not living together. Is it true? I can do paath and pray for him and have his photo out as well? Any specific instructions, please let me know.

kaurlife gravatar imagekaurlife ( 2018-11-29 08:56:49 -0500 )edit

If you wish, but it is better to visualize him in your mind, not as he appears in any photo, but in his soul nature - radiant, happy, healthy, surrounded by golden light. Visualize him at his highest potential. This is more powerful than any photo.

Guruka Singh gravatar imageGuruka Singh ( 2018-12-11 15:08:54 -0500 )edit

answered 2020-02-21 11:20:34 -0500

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The real meaning of Gurbani is to become detached, If you keep your self detached to your husband. If he stays or leaves you will just not feel any sadness.

Detachment means to understand happiness and sadness are just emotions produced by mind and not get carried away with it and give them permanent place in your mind.

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