Ask Your Question

Is God mad at me?

asked 2018-09-26 10:25:31 -0600

Kaurrr. gravatar image

I promised God. I told God that "if I get my period on time this month,I will not hump on my pillow anymore" I promised so many times and I still did it. But I was serious last month. And yesterday I humped on my pillow ( I shouldn't do it cuz i promised to God ) but i still did it. So I humped on my pillow with my clothes on. So i actually broke my promise with God.So I am worried if God will get fed up with me and he will just get me pregnant to teach me a lesson? I never had sex I just humped on the pillow with my clothes on but idk if there was sperm on the pillow. Is this possible? For me to get pregnant from doing that and breaking promises with God?

edit retag flag offensive close merge delete

2 answers

Sort by ยป oldest newest most voted

answered 2018-10-10 12:52:41 -0600

mydarshan gravatar image

WGJKK! WGJKF! I think there are two things - number one is the obsessive thought about getting pregnant. Obsessive thoughts are not in any way helpful. they take away your focus from the present moment. They are based in fear and obsessive thinking behavior, such a OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder). You need to take this bull by the horn and get help for it. On your own, you may find that reciting "waheguru" as a continual mantra can help, if you start chanting it whenever your mind starts spinning about "God is mad at me and my period won't come," perhaps it can help you restore equalibrium to your mind. Obessessing over something makes it easy to NOT take an action to change a situation. But all of this may be easier with professional help. A therapist or coach can help you address the constant repetitive thoughts, the inability to take action, the constant overwhelming fears.

And number two - getting pregnant. I think you said in another post that you are 17, is that right? There are many, many resources for you to inform and educate yourself about how a woman actually gets pregnant. Whatever your mum or others have told you should not be more important than educating yourself. This is the ACTION that would be important for you to take - because it empowers you. Your obsessive thoughts do not (in fact, they disempower you, they stop you from taking action.). You can research on the internet, go to the doctor, go to the library and read books - there are so many resources. Taking action, you will take your power back into your own hands. You will understand how the female body works, you will understand that feeling sexual urges is normal and natural, you will know that sperm and eggs are what create pregnancy.

It is just my opinion ji, but I feel like the answers from others will not help you break this cycle of fearful thinking that you could or might get pregnant. YOU are the one who can take this power by informing yourself thoroughly. Educate yourself, ji. There is educational and scientific information everywhere and this is what will ease your mind more than fretful thinking or worrying obsessively. There is no greater kindness you can do for yourself.

My prayers are with you.

edit flag offensive delete link more

answered 2018-09-26 16:01:32 -0600

Guruka Singh gravatar image

updated 2018-09-26 17:57:42 -0600

There is no problem here. God does not get "fed up." It's all God. You, me, the pillow... everything.

Constant thinking about sex is normal for teenagers. Obsessive, fearful thoughts and constant worrying is not.

The problem lies deeper. From your several posts, you seem very fearful about getting pregnant. Is this because your mom said some things to you that implanted that fear in you? Whatever the deeper layer is, unless you deal with where these thoughts are coming from, the fear will persist.

When you have obsessive thoughts, the only remedy is Naam. But you have to cultivate Naam, adore it, develop a daily practice and then get into it. That takes some spiritual work. We call that work daily sadhana - your spiritual practice.

edit flag offensive delete link more


Thank you Ji. I will start praying. But can I know if it is possible to get pregnant from humping a pillow?

Kaurrr. gravatar imageKaurrr. ( 2018-09-27 02:13:25 -0600 )edit

No, it is not possible.

Guruka Singh gravatar imageGuruka Singh ( 2018-09-27 07:29:57 -0600 )edit

Question Tools

1 follower


Asked: 2018-09-26 10:25:31 -0600

Seen: 483 times

Last updated: Oct 10 '18