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How shall I convince my parents ?

asked 2018-05-02 01:04:27 -0600

Manjit Kaur gravatar image

updated 2018-05-02 10:20:48 -0600

Guruka Singh gravatar image

Wahgeuru ji ka Khalsa Waheguru ji ki fateh. I always wanted to wear Dastaar or keski . But as I've already told that my parent's are less into sikhi. They did support me to receive Amrit but are not ready to allow me for Dastaar. Because there's no one Amritdhari in my family except me. And a women with Dastaar is a way far thing. I want to wear . I want to protect my Kesh which are God gifted and are a part of 5'K . My dad doesn't want me to . If i do he might be not happy. His reason might be my future. I really don't understand what to do. I carry chunni everywhere. But it still doesn't complete me whereas Dastaar would . I've read alot about Rehatnama's made by our Guru Sahib. But I'm helpless at this moment :( i don't want to hurt my parents. I truly don't care what my future would be because it's in Guru Sahib's hand and i have a believe on him. But my parent's would get worried. For them it's like i start asking for such things which are impossible to be done. I always decide tomorrow I'll wear. But then i just stop. Which is ny weakness. Please someone who would advice me what should be done. Should i listen to my parents for now or just get done with what i want.

Bhul chuk maaf !!

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If you willing to wear keski . You can do simple chunni and can do keertan.

Amandeep007 gravatar imageAmandeep007 ( 2018-07-04 23:29:50 -0600 )edit

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answered 2018-05-02 10:23:22 -0600

Guruka Singh gravatar image

Gurfateh Manjit Kaur Ji! Tie your turban. It is who you are. Your rehit is between you and Guru Ji. Your parents are not part of that. They just want you to be happy and feel that if you don't stand out you have a better chance at happiness. But you know who you are and you must be that. Your parents do not get to decide this one.

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Waheguru jio

Manjit Kaur gravatar imageManjit Kaur ( 2018-05-02 14:08:19 -0600 )edit

Yes Manjit Kaur ji wear turban

Amandeep007 gravatar imageAmandeep007 ( 2018-07-04 23:26:39 -0600 )edit

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