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asked 2017-12-12 07:32:42 -0500

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updated 2017-12-13 16:26:27 -0500

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I have just been listening to a video about a lady talking about Karma and deeds and how one is paying the price for these in This life! And when I talk to anyone they keep saying praying to God who is this forgiving ever loving being? Keep praying and things will get better. I am on the verge of a nervous breakdown and want some answers before i go mental! Nothing is getting better! If Dharamraj is the chap that is doing the balancing and looking at our good, bad deeds and rewarding us , then What is the reason to pray to the All Being God? I have never heard that God has interfered in Dharamraj's work! When they say in the Bani Tere Bhana Meetha Lageh, doesnt this mean take life as it comes! don't complain! so how can praying help? I am seriously thinking of stopping doing all this mental chanting, praying and going to the Gurudwara all my life is more messy, I am more upset and have become more vulnerable. I get teased by people telling me that, "You think God will apply some miracle to your life? in your dreams!" This is the talk of helplessness. If anyone is not aware! Even when I want I work I cannot, I fall sick, even when i want to help someone I have no money, every time i try to do something good there is a problem. What to do about helplessness when a person cannot even help their own partner to get better? And just look at them giving up on life right infront of the person's eyes?

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answered 2017-12-13 10:29:54 -0500

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updated 2017-12-13 10:36:11 -0500

One day perhaps you'll wake up from the long sleep of the night of the shadow. And you'll wake up to the fact that there was no prayer for you. There was no God for you. There was nothing for you except you. And you were the prayer. You were the God. And you were the Self. Meditation, Gurbani, Paath, they are all to prepare us to let go into the One and drop our ego-centered lives. Guru Ji arranges all our affairs... IF we let him do so and don't interfere.

So what is prayer then?

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Questionji, How to wake up from the night of the shadow? How to overcome guilt?

sanjlon gravatar imagesanjlon ( 2017-12-17 15:42:40 -0500 )edit

Meditate. Pay Attention. Listen. Surrender Jap - Suniai - Manai

Guruka Singh gravatar imageGuruka Singh ( 2017-12-20 17:20:12 -0500 )edit

answered 2017-12-13 02:48:31 -0500

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Wjkk wjkf You should be clear that GOD is within us , within u.Dharamraaj is used to symbolise our subconscious mind which keeps record of our deeds. Doing good or bad deedss depends uponn the person. We pray for strengthening our mind to accept the reality and do righteos things. Gurydwaraa is a place where we listen guru shabad with sadh sangat and with no outside distraction. GURBANI is not a magic, it comprises with instructions given by our gurus , saints and its our task to understand GURBANI and apply it to our daily life situations . Learning from situations and moving doing righteous thing is a sign of inner true sikh . Bhul chuk maaf krnaa ji

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Thank you ji bohot bohot!

sanjlon gravatar imagesanjlon ( 2017-12-17 15:40:57 -0500 )edit

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