Regret Cutting my hairs.

answered 2017-04-04 02:34:16 -0500

Not at all Punjabi
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Sikhism is not everybody's cup of tea, the reason most of the Sikhs face extreme difficulty in keeping untrimmed bodily hairs from Top to Toe plus there are other restrictions too like Sikh must not smoke, drink alcohol and being vegetarian, etc., etc.

There are other religions, non-Sikh faiths which do not have so many restrictions like Sikhism, so all those Sikhs who do face daily issues in practicing Sikhism, do have the option of converting to any non-Sikh faith. Sikhism cannot be followed just by being emotional or sentimental or even by force. To follow Sikhism you need firm commitment to be made to yourself.

Please don't feel ashamed rather ask yourself, "Is it possible for me to follow this most difficult path of the Guru?". If your own inner self says No, then just leave Sikhi rather than being muddled or confused, and regretting as to why i trimmed my hairs.......................Rest, the choice is your's.

answered 2017-04-04 12:55:25 -0500

Guruka Singh
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You seem to be asking forum members to help you not to feel depressed about your actions. I don't think we can do that.

You say, "I don't know why i did this it just happened." Hmmm... actually you do know very well. There is only one reason - because you want to please others by looking as you think they wish you to look.

If your conscience is bothering you, that's why. So you have two choices: 1. Keep cutting your hairs (and that will become your daily routine.) or, 2. Let God be your groomer and allow them to grow back in your natural form.

answered 2017-04-04 16:02:53 -0500

Student
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Oh my God. The people who responded to your plea are so mean. If they were so much into Sikhi, they would empathize with your pain and not put you down. Guru ji is not going to punish you. Life is a journey. You will make mistakes. One day either you will decide that you are fully happy with your hair or you might go the other way. You have to decide what is most important to you.