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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

Why do you want to end your life ?

If you can give us more details about why your scared, we can help you better.

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

Why do you want to end your life ?

If you can give us more details about why your scared, we can help you better.


Edit

No one is forcing you to get married. Many Gursikhs such as Baba Deep Singh Ji and Bhai Gurdas Ji didn't get married.

Marriage isn't meant to be a scary thing, you are overthinking it. 9 out of the 10 Gurus got married and had children.

Don't end your life, you probably have some anxiety. Don't want to get married simple don't.

Please look at this link, someone asked a question kind of similar to yours.

Also ask the Sangat on their your questions, hopefully you will get more replies.

Guru Ji himself answered your questions in yesterdays Hukamnama from Sri Harmandir Sahib.

Heres the link http://www.sikhnet.com/hukam/archive/2015-07-22

Also this 16 minute Katha for this Hukam will answer all your questions

Also check out this post

To receive this human life and to follow the path of Sikhi is very hard to obtain.

Please get back a soon as you can

Do ardaas in front of Guru Ji tell him to destroy all your fears. Keep doing path, simran and sewa.

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

Why do you want to end your life ?

If you can give us more details about why your scared, we can help you better.


Edit

No one is forcing you to get married. Many Gursikhs such as Baba Deep Singh Ji and Bhai Gurdas Ji didn't get married.

Marriage isn't meant to be a scary thing, you are overthinking it. 9 out of the 10 Gurus got married and had children.

Don't end your life, you probably have some anxiety. Don't want to get married simple don't.

Please look at this link, someone asked a question kind of similar to yours.

Also ask the Sangat on their your questions, hopefully you will get more replies.

Guru Ji himself answered your questions in yesterdays Hukamnama from Sri Harmandir Sahib.

Heres the link http://www.sikhnet.com/hukam/archive/2015-07-22

Also this 16 minute Katha for this Hukam will answer all your questions

Also check out this post

To receive this human life and to follow the path of Sikhi is very hard to obtain.

Please get back a soon as you can

Do ardaas in front of Guru Ji tell him to destroy all your fears. Keep doing path, simran and sewa.

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh


Edit 2

Thanks for getting back

Didn't mean to say you where asexual sorry if that offended you.

You can find yourself a Gursikh husband, theres many sikh matrimonial sites. Getting married to a Sikh who follows the Guru will help develop your spirituality both of your aims and hopes will be related to Guru Ji. So you will both push each other to become better Sikhs. Also you are allowed to love your family and husband nothing wrong with that, it's said that Baba Fateh Singh Ji used to run and hug Guru Sahib Ji when he was sitting on his thakt.

As Sikhs we should bring Sikhs into this world, and teach them what Guru Ji has taught the whole world. Then hopefully feature generations of Sikhs will serve and protect humanity.

I think I heard that the souls merge, but im not sure about this if some else can confirm this please.

In Lavan it talks about your soul being merged with waheguru

Theres a whole course on Anand Karajs think there are 3 parts.

Also there was something about Anand Karjas and the couple walking together instead on the male leading. Jagraj Singh from Basics of Sikhi said that one of them further distance away from Guru Ji, where as the leading way both are equally close to Guru Ji.

I would agree with your parents living with a male and not being married. The moment you both slip for a split second you could both end up having a physical relationship.

You are allowed to find/date a Singh if you want to get married. And you should be only getting married when your ready, if you ain't ready then wait.

You could talk to Kaurs on herewww.sikhsangat.com. They can give you better advice as I'm male and unmarried.

Need any more help please reply back or on the link above.

Please forgive me if i offended you in any way and said anything wrong.

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

Why do you want to end your life ?

If you can give us more details about why your scared, we can help you better.


Edit

No one is forcing you to get married. Many Gursikhs such as Baba Deep Singh Ji and Bhai Gurdas Ji didn't get married.

Marriage isn't meant to be a scary thing, you are overthinking it. 9 out of the 10 Gurus got married and had children.

Don't end your life, you probably have some anxiety. Don't want to get married simple don't.

Please look at this link, someone asked a question kind of similar to yours.

Also ask the Sangat on their your questions, hopefully you will get more replies.

Guru Ji himself answered your questions in yesterdays Hukamnama from Sri Harmandir Sahib.

Heres the link http://www.sikhnet.com/hukam/archive/2015-07-22

Also this 16 minute Katha for this Hukam will answer all your questions

Also check out this post

To receive this human life and to follow the path of Sikhi is very hard to obtain.

Please get back a soon as you can

Do ardaas in front of Guru Ji tell him to destroy all your fears. Keep doing path, simran and sewa.

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh


Edit 2

Thanks for getting back

Didn't mean to say you where asexual sorry if that offended you.

You can find yourself a Gursikh husband, theres many sikh matrimonial sites. Getting married to a Sikh who follows the Guru will help develop your spirituality both of your aims and hopes will be related to Guru Ji. So you will both push each other to become better Sikhs. Also you are allowed to love your family and husband nothing wrong with that, it's said that Baba Fateh Singh Ji used to run and hug Guru Sahib Ji when he was sitting on his thakt.

As Sikhs we should bring Sikhs into this world, and teach them what Guru Ji has taught the whole world. Then hopefully feature generations of Sikhs will serve and protect humanity.

I think I heard that the souls merge, but im not sure about this if some else can confirm this please.

In Lavan it talks about your soul being merged with waheguru

Theres a whole course on Anand Karajs think there are 3 parts.

Also there was something about Anand Karjas and the couple walking together instead on the male leading. Jagraj Singh from Basics of Sikhi said that one of them further distance away from Guru Ji, where as the leading way both are equally close to Guru Ji.

I would agree with your parents living with a male and not being married. The moment you both slip for a split second you could both end up having a physical relationship.

You are allowed to find/date a Singh if you want to get married. And you should be only getting married when your ready, if you ain't ready then wait.

You could talk to Kaurs on herehere www.sikhsangat.com. They can give you better advice as I'm male and unmarried.

Need any more help please reply back or on the link above.

Please forgive me if i offended you in any way and said anything wrong.

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh